MIL slaps husband

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Re: MIL slaps husband

@IcedDiamond

Op here

I’ll try to answer your questions and clarify issues.
I don’t care about making lasagne over roast chicken.
I was TOLD by my MIL to make lasagne for Eid.
The day before Eid she told us to make roast chicken

My husband told her that it was unfair of her to make demands and that she should have given us notice.
I’ll admit that my husband raised his voice and was angry.
My husband was driving my MIL and I shopping at the time.

My MIL then shouted How dare my husband speak to her like that.
She said this issue was about her and me and didn’t concern him.
She then slapped him pretty hard on the face

My MIL has a history of shouting at us. She puts me down regularly.
She is in charge of her house and will brook no interference.
But she has no problems dictating to others how to live their lives.

We were living with my MIL until about a couple of weeks before Eid.
My husband spoke to her about get excessive and unreasonable demands.
She said if you will not follow my rules then don’t live in my house.
We were happy to move out.

We thought our relationship would improve if we no longer lived with her.
We still went to her house for Eid and we haven’t talked to her about this.
Finally, after the slap, my MIL told me make lasagne and leave the roast chicken, if it was such a big deal to me.

Is it the first time she slapped him in front of you and she does it often too?
So you actually admit that your husband raised his voice over her in front of you!!!

I would say, both are wrong at their ends. His mother for slapping her son in front of her DIL and Your husband, raising his voice and being aggressive over his mother in front of his wife!!

Few things are just need to be settled in private!! Every grown up human has his respect!!!