So my MIL and FIL are coming to visit us, and will be with us for 6 weeks. My MIL seems to be a very sweet person and is extremely loving to me. She irons my clothes and gets up in the morning to make parathas for me on a weekday. I cant put a finger to it, but I know and I know and I know (thank you dear guppans for the insight), that its all a facade on my MIL’s part and is part of some bigger agenda. What do I need to do to make everyone realize that she has a double personalty, and all this love is just a big drama?
She should also hand wash your clothes besides ironing them and if she doesn’t you should open another thread about her lol.
In all seriousness you should show her a good time.
And did u ever write her a thank you card for all her khidmat you asaan framosh banday? I bet u didn’t. Now she vill the spit on the paratha before serving it to u.
ok…? so what would you rather she be doing, beating your and cursing you like a typical mother-in-law? lol the things people complain about. i wouldn’t care if shes being fake, so long as she continues being nice towards me and making my parathas for me. i had an aunty like that in pakistan, when we were staying at her house she treated us like queens, we didn’t have to lift a finger. we could do whatever the hell we wanted. when we left though she insulted us behind our back. i didn’t care though, at least i didn’t have to do any work in her house lol thats all that mattered to me. i always look for the silver lining…
You poor soul you - send her (and her parathas) to my house. I’ll teach her to make parathas for a punjabi family. Haa’th na thuk gai tho mera naam Muniya nahi.
Maybe, as opposed to the various threads on GupShup and dramas on Starplus about ‘evil MIL’s’, she may be actually doing it out of love and respect for you. Don’t think about it too much and just go with the flow.
