you are living in Pakistan for more than a year, you still dont know how to mold according to your MIL. You dont know how to perform act in front of people. your responses to your MIL are somewhere not pleasant. do what, which make her winner. I mean, app unko channy kay jhaar par charha dain. matlab, do some buttering and show your flexibility and talk sweetly so that everyone at in laws home like you. I think , I am asking bigger change at your end.
It is gross.