kabhi kabhi ghar ke amn o amaan kii Khaatir koi shareef biwi yaa shareef aurat apne toofaanii/not so shareef spouses se mazaaHamat nahiiN kartaa aur Khush asloobii se kaam letaa hai to ise dekhne waale na jaane kin kin baatoN se taâbeer dete haiN jaise aapne farmaayaa âishaaroN pe naachne-waalaaâ yaa âbiwii kaa Ghulaamâ yaa âzan mureedâ caGhaira vaGhaira.
if you find this unbelievable then howâs about a man that comes to his wife and says that an intelligent woman would know how to make her husband do this or thatâŚ
I donât understand why any man would want to make her husband do somethingâŚisnât it about him wanting to do it?
There are submissive husbands out there. In my experience these are mainly those who have accepted some sort of favour (financial or otherwise) from their inlaws and hence influenced by the wife/in-lawsâ every decision. Sex is a good manipulant but it doesnât stop a man from standing up for his principles or his own family.
Family politics. Come on, there are thousands of manipulative, chalaak wives out there.
This is similar situation with the Monkey and the owner. When the owner will bang or shake the diba he/she has, the monkey will âNach punjaban Nachâ. Otherwise, the monkey would just look around at other female bandriyan.
If a man listens to his wife and agrees to do things her way and respects her, helps around the house and the kids. People say heâs âwhippedâ.
Itâs called a respectful relationship people, plus we donât know how things are between them
When you see a good husband or wife, people will automatically start to say things like âaray dekho dekho, ye to apne bivi/shauhar ke isharon pe nachtay heinâ.
Like I said before, you never know what is going on behind closed doors.
And what on earth is wrong with a husband and wife being good to each other???
^What you say is true, but there are a lot of sissy ghar jamai type husbands in Pakistani society who would screw their own families over for their in-laws. Itâs not all talk.