Re: Messy People
Renee,
We ALL (including Sadzzz) were attentive to your posts in our own unique way. Everyone has different opinions. Some people said she's jealous, some said she's rude, others said that maybe she's shy. Nobody is trying to defend your sister-in-laws behavior. We ALL feel that she can make the effort to behave more positively and welcoming as YOU will be the new addition to their family. We're all trying to understand the different reasons why she is behaving this way.
Since everyone's experience is different, their advice is also be different. While she could be behaving rudely for other reason, i think it's more of a jealousy issue or perhaps she behaves like this with everyone. Sadzzz' s opinion is not an unreasonable possibility. She was just offering another angle as the rest of us.