hmmmm, that is the problem. I dont want to get anything made without having someone that I am paying to communicate what I want. When family does it, and they mess up, they are all like “chalo koi baht nahin, waisey bhi haam kya kar sak the hain”.
Than you gotta shut up and let it go.
When you are paying someone you can be like, this is not what I asked for, so you need to fix it, and than they really dont have a choice. 