a girl i known since my childhood is getting married. im really surprised since she seems so immature amongst other notions i have of her. ok dont get me wrong, i know she was going to get married one day, but i find it weird
shes 2 yrs younger than me, lately i’ve found so many girls (who are a few years younger than me) are getting married. & im starting to feel sad & scared since im not.
what do u guys thing???
Well, now that you’ve put it that way and asked us what we thing, I will tell you what I thing. I thing it feels weird because your friend is getting married? Now she’ll have someone new in her life and devote all her time to him? She’s youner than you and you are still single, maybe that’s bothering you? (no seriously). And last but not least, I thing you are jealous because she will be getting all new clothes, money, shoes, and other stuff and you are not 
So what do you thing? You thing I thinged right?
well u r right abt one thing, i feel bad bec im still single.
the other things are not right, bec 1st im not close to her @ all… in fact i really cant stand to be around her too long.
2ndly, alhum. i have all that i could want as it is.
What should i do with this feeling? I mean im super happy that shes getting married, I cant wait till i see her next time so i can give her a huge hug & mubarak. BUT… im still feeling so sad for myself… man people are so selfish na! he he
it's human nature, nothing selfish about it. if you were bitter, jealous and unhappy about her getting married, that would be different.
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*Originally posted by MehnazQ: *
it's human nature, nothing selfish about it. if you were bitter, jealous and unhappy about her getting married, that would be different.
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thanx MQ, just dont know how to get rid of this feeling, im starting to feel like i will never get married! i know this girl who didnt get married until she was 30!!!
i thing u should thing a lil bit of something which is really a thing to thing about n not to thing of the thing u thinged to be thinging of 
btw… what is all this thing about? :halo:
hhs… maybe it just isn’t the right time for u to get married… but i cannon say anything about it, cuz i do not know anything about u… i.e. ur age / gender etc.. 
23, female
& yes… Allah (SWT) knows best, but i feels like everyone around me is getting married except me. even those who are a lot younger than me
snap out of it woman..chill and enjoy your life how it is right now. Your not married yet as its not your time, everything happens for a reason and we don’t get a choice of when things happen to us.
so what if shes married..thats her time, youv probs got more important things going on in your life right now, concentrate on them..and don’t wish for something to happen as it almost never does…you’l probs get the best rishta then your not expecting it!!
and men smell..so u dnt really need them 
thanx MM!!! u really mad me smile!!! i know its not my time, just afraid that my time will never come. not to mention all the crap i hear from others abt me not getting married yet. Y is it that people have a need to make others feel bad abt not being married. i used to be carefree abt marriage, thinking that it doesnt matter when cuz its all upto Allah (SWT) so just go with the flow… but i guess all those people got to me.
thanx again!!!
hhs, we all have to hear it. I’m 25 so don’t worry. I’m older than you and there are a few of us here in the same boat. Ignore the crap that others say to you. People will always talk **** to bring you down and make nasty comments. Try and rise above it .
Yeah don't waste your time stressing out why you're not married yet, and when you'll get married, etc. Enjoy your life as it is now, because when you do get married (insha-Allah), you'll be missing your single life.
And time flies, darling. It flies.
*MQ: * ur right, people are like that
PCG thanx for the words... i've calmed down now... trying to get back into my laid back self :)
thanx both of you for the help!
I pray that Allah (SWT) will reward you for your kindness & make ur jodas great ones inshAllah x3 (PCG i dont know if ur married, but if u r I pray that inshAllah x 3 every moment of your marriage will be blessed )
I agree with PCG. It’s so important for you to take advantage of your single status right now. You may have regrets later on in life.
What I mean is, do things now that you may not be able to do things after you are married. Travel. Take those classes you’ve always wanted to take … keep yourself occupied with various hobbies. You won’t regret it.
DAMAGED GOODS ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HHS, you're 23. damn girl now you'll never find anyone. Paki gals over 21 years of age and not married are damaged property. No self-respecting paki guy will marry you now. I suggest you get a couple of cats. They will keep you company from now on till the day you die. Sorry to say this, but you will die a old lonely woman.
Just kidding. Don't worry so much girl. You'll find someone.
HHHS…i’m going through the exact same thing as you…except i’m only 19, and yes there are girls i know younger than me or my age getting married and such
my time is runing outttttttttttttttttt 
subhan… i think this thread is bringing many together…
dont worry** saraji**, we can support each other. dont worry abt the other girls… they are getting married really early.
for a second i thought u were serious 
well ive gotten a bacch. degree, dont travel w/o family, & dont have any hobbies.
but being single is nice too dont have those couple probs… the ones my married friends tell me abt.
Thank-you.