wat the hell i pay extra close attention to ppl’s problem and i listen to them. specially if they are the opposite sex. ask the guppans who have met me 
I wonder if your mother thought that your father was a pig....HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.
It’s true.
Maybe you should improve your screening process with the men you choose. Stop trying to get men to think like women. We're very good at talking about emotional subjects. Just not the stuff you want to here. I'm not that I’m afraid of expressing my feelings its just that I don’t care to do so at every waking moment.
And whats this "Men are Pigs" crap?. Do you feel better now that you've alienated yourself from all men. (at least the ones in this forum). If a Pig is what you expect then a Pig is what you'll find.
Oh Im sorry wittle baby, did you think finding a good man was going to be easy? Do you expect every guy you come across is to be Mr. Right? Hell, you'd be lucky to find, your particular Mr. Right, out of a group of 1000 guys.
The bottom line is stop being so pessimistic towards men. We can smell that funky, "all men are pigs", attitude from a mile away.
Sorry about the long reply.
I’m more entertained by how much offense the male population here is taking at being called pigs, rather than really answering the question on why there is such an aversion to emotions. 
In fact, no one has really explained WHY the aversion exists, although some here and there have admitted that there is a difference in the way girls and guys approach emotions. The only valid explanation I see is that men are tired at the end of the day and would rather have a stress-free conversation with their sweathearts? Is that the main explanation or is there more?
As for the pigs part: Awww. You kids are good boys. For the most part. :nahnah:
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PCG u can keep the pig title for those who u know personally (ur bro, dad etc)....
why judge the rest of the guys that u dont know....
^ Yeah. There's no need to judge other people and tell what they are.
PCG as far as i understand, guys are more practical & ladies more emotional. if you tell a guy a problem he will use his mind & heart to solve the problem. where as the girl really only wants someone to share the problem.
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**I will personally buy any female who wants a copy and ship it to her*
haha be careful.
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If it would help I will pay for therapy lessons as well. I am dead serious about the book.
As for the subject of dealing with emotions: The only women I will sit for hours and listen to are few and far between. Rather there are only four.
Also men do not sit around and talk about something. If something is broken we fix it. If it isn’t broken we don’t fix it. We do not spend hours discussing whether it is broken, and if it is broken how many different ways are there to fix it.
There is a problem. We analyze it. Find the best solution and get it out of the way. We do not spend 2 weeks discussing the matter.
The same applies to emotions. We discuss them and forget about it. It is over and done with. We do not want to bring it up over and over again.
Just to note this is covered in chapters three and four in the book I mentioned before.
i think the reason the guys are focusing on the name calling is because you expect them to answer your question in which you have insulted them. they probably feel annoyed at those remarks & dont feel the need to answer a question to which you have already seemed to have formed an opinion
The thing is hhs4462, I doubt any man on this website takes PyariCgudia seriously. These posts can be construed as attention-seeking and/or flame baiting.
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PCG as far as i understand, guys are more practical & ladies more emotional. if you tell a guy a problem he will use his mind & heart to solve the problem. where as the girl really only wants someone to share the problem.
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yeh i agree with you, asking men to be emotional is like opening a very bad can of worms which looked better closed.
No, seriously, so what if people don't to talk and share, some people work better on their own as in they are capable of solving their own issues. talking sometimes makes things worse, i mean sometimes when dealing with an issue, how pointless is it going on and on and on about the same bloody thing? thats 1 good thing about men, they dont need to clarlfy a situation a million times and you'l always get an honest answer.
Do you really need to know how they feel? As long as he listens to me i dont care if he talks or shares.
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The thing is hhs4462, I doubt any man on this website takes PyariCgudia seriously. These posts can be construed as attention-seeking and/or flame baiting.
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well i think the title says that shes upset **
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yeh i agree with you, asking men to be emotional is like opening a very bad can of worms which looked better closed.
No, seriously, so what if people don't to talk and share, some people work better on their own as in they are capable of solving their own issues. talking sometimes makes things worse, i mean sometimes when dealing with an issue, how pointless is it going on and on and on about the same bloody thing? thats 1 good thing about men, they dont need to clarlfy a situation a million times and you'l always get an honest answer.
Do you really need to know how they feel? As long as he listens to me i dont care if he talks or shares.
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** i think every person is different when it comes to trusting/sharing whats inside of them. for all the guys i know they are not willing to just open up to anyone. when they talk abt their probs you have to listen carefully, because they are not going to make a drama about it. but they do want you to pay attention & share your advise/sympathy. its all there, u just got to pay attention to the difference :biggthumb**
You hit the nail on the head Sir Galahad.
And for you PyariCgudia, lets just take the gloves off. Hell, Ill be up for a few hours anyway, I could use a good fight.
What friggin' planet are you from? Do you have any idea what the hell you're talking about? You're either a bitter old shrew or some 13 yr old adolescent experiencing the prepubescent growing pains of being ignored by Todd the junior varsity quarterback.
The ball’s in your court darlin’.
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yeh i agree with you, asking men to be emotional is like opening a very bad can of worms which looked better closed.
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Miss_Mohabbat you are my dream girl
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Miss_Mohabbat you are my dream girl
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I think you may want to rethink this comment
I am a self confessed "man hater", i personally prefer the term "challenging" but we can't have everything now can we.
^Miss_Mohabbat, you just need some good lovin'^
erm..is it right to be afraid by what you just wrote?
u dont understand...I HATE MEN
goodness me..u were meant to run away or at least tell me to shut up and get a grip!
whats wrong with u?
MM maybe this is the kind of guy you need to get you to stop hating men
I dont think they take emotional women seriously, just incase they become emotional too, so they tend to block them feelings out. Thats all it is i think.