Becuz i was grabbed by the crotch in sabzi mandi in Karachi.
And I'm not kidding either.
O' God let me edit my post....this is something serious....
oh please, I answered the guy's question point blank. But that's not the issue here at all. That guy just came past me and left right away.
I'm talking about the tendency that men have of not wanting to talk to a girl about feelings - whenever the discussion comes to feelings, they hurry away or cut you off. What gives?
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Becuz i was grabbed by the crotch in sabzi mandi in Karachi.
And I'm not kidding either.
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well I can certainly understand why you would be pissed off after that. But you are a educated girl. You of all people should know not to paint an entire group the same color just because what one bad apple did. Is your dad a pig? How bout your brother? cousin? friend?
It's like me being rejected by a girl and assuming all girls are sluts and hos that needs to be bitch-slapped.
um alright darling, let me make it simple for you.
I know many of you guys have the right intentions. I am trying to get a feel for why it is you guys tend to do certain things, so that I can understand how to go about dealing with men in my life.
And no, i know you aren't all pigs. At least not all the time.
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um alright darling, let me make it simple for you.
I know many of you guys have the right intentions. I am trying to get a feel for why it is you guys tend to do certain things, so that I can understand how to go about dealing with men in my life.
And no, i know you aren't all pigs. At least not all the time.
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perhaps you need to start off like this. Instead of coming hard with the "pig" comment.
oh comon! how do you not know that I'm joking with the pig comments? Jeez. Uptight 18 year old bacha hai.
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oh comon! how do you not know that I'm joking with the pig comments? Jeez. Uptight 18 year old bacha hai.
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I know your not joking because this isn't the first time you've made a "pig" comment or something along this line. Apparently you do think that good men are rare. Otherwise you wouldn't put it in your sig, would you now.
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now Atlanta, if you feel that you are not among the piggish men that I feel DO exist, then rest assured in your confidence in yourself as a good man (boy in my eyes - sorry kiddo) - and stop diverting the conversation onto my personal life. Rather, address the topic in the thread which is the lack of capacity to address emotional issues in conversation.
Don't try to manipulate the conversation.
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good men are rare - TRUE
all men are pigs - too broad of a statement
SOME men are pigs - TRUE
MANY men are pigs - TRUE
MOST men are pigs - DEBATABLE. If they have some deen and iman, those guys are alright.
MOST men are emotionally oblivious (ahem - the point of this thread) - TRUE.
These are my opinions. Sue me if you think I'm wrong.
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GOOD girls are rare- true
SOME girls are sluts- true
MANY girls are hos- true
MOST girls are bitches- ABSOLUTELY CORRECT
Most girls let their emotions take over and are born with a victims mentality- TRUE
These are my opinions. Sue me if you think I'm wrong
See how your words could be perceived as insensitive and unfair.
that’s fine if you want to think that way. I actually agree with you on many of those points.
How many of you woman have actually read the book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" by John Gray? Its a good 15 years old but trust me it will put most of your questions to rest.
A rather common sense book from the looks of it all the females who post here need to read.
Just a paragraph from the book:
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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus Page 29
When Tom comes home he wants to relax and unwind by quietly reading the newspaper. He is stressed by the unsolved problems of his day and finds relief through forgetting about them.
His wife, Mary also wants to relax from her stressful day. She, however, wants to find relief in talking about the problems of her day. The tension slowly builds and turns towards resentment.
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Read the book please and spare us the rants we have to put up with. I will personally buy any female who wants a copy and ship it to her if it will mean i will have to read less about "men being pigs" or that we are the spawn of Satan.
I will personally buy any female who wants a copy and ship it to her
haha be careful.
isse kehte hain apne hi thread me corner hona. :)
Maybe they don't like to be called "emotional fools" like women. They think it makes you "tough" to hide your feelings.
baray ho jao bacchon..
stop whining PCG....
if u havent found a good man, then its not our fault...
either u r looking into wrong places or u r just plain unlucky....
but whatever the case, u hate men and its just u who will end up being a loser....
Okie then I guess I’ve hit the jack pot…guys almost always tell me about their problems, insecurities and issues..oh yeah..but I’m not their girl friend.
