Just a quick observation and I know you all might hate me for saying this ... but being bulletproof implies that you don't let anything affect you ... then how will you allow yourself to be affected when it is the right thing to be doing?
I mean should we not all take good constructive advice on board and let our emotions come to terms with the fact that we have struggled to improve?
Of course, we should take good constructive advice and use it to improve!
However, letting comments affect you to the point where you start to think less of yourself...this is bad.
If he doesnt compliment me, I dont get upset. I check my lipstick and go.
If he doesnt like my hair, I dont take it personally. What does he know about fashion? Its my hair and it looks cute!
If he thinks my cooking is bad - this never is the case - I would fix a little on the side for him the way he likes it and its over! I cook the way I was taught and love it!
If I started getting upset and emotional over everything, phir to hogaya kaam!
Zindagi bohot choti hai bhai...haso khelo aur aish karo!