Men who are not against polygamy [merged]

[princessjojo]

Re: Men who are not against polygamy

@TLK

I am not saying that virgin is preferd. I am saying that marrying 2nd or 3rd time is not conditional that you are only suppose to marry a widow. **If marrying a widow is any better than marrying virgin (be it first nikah or second or 3rd) then prophet would have never said what he said in that hadees.
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Point is, Islam will keep that same standards for 1st and 4rth Nikah. Standards dont change just because you are marrying another wife. There is no sin in marrying a virgin as second wife.

I think what you’re saying is contradictory. If the same aspects of a woman are ok for a man to choose from, then what it means is that a virgin is preferred regardless of 1st or 4th nikah. However, you said before that that a virgin is not prefered.

And if that is true, we should then say that polygamy is allowed for men to fulfil their physical desires, primarily. Where does the argument of supporting/protecting divorced, orphanced, widowed or abandoned women fit in this case? It would only be a by-product, but not the primary gain of polygamy.