Re: Men who are not against polygamy
Let me try to clarify this misconception.
None of these verses negate multiple marriage.
4:3 And if you fear that you cannot do justice to the orphans then marry who seem good to you from among women - two or three or four. But if you fear that you cannot deal justly, then only one; or whom your right hands possessed. This is more proper so that you may not deviate.
4:129 Ye will not be able to deal equally between (your) wives, however much ye wish (to do so): But turn not altogether away (from one), leaving her as in suspense. If ye do good and keep from evil, lo! Allah is ever Forgiving, Merciful.
In 4:3, it is said if you fear the injustice then do not do it.
In 4:129, after acknowledging the inability of man to be completely just in dealing with them, it is defined what injustice really is. which is the basis of prohibition in Verse 4:3.
That is, if one out of lets say four is left unattended.
As long as all of the wives are attended to and cared for with their basic legitimate needs then none of these verses is applied.
Off course if one wife is abandoned and not cared for whatever reason, then he should either take care of her too or leave her altogether…don’t leave her hanging!
And… then he can marry another who he will care for…
Again multiple marriage is not prohibited by any of these verses.