Re: Men who are not against polygamy [merged]
great suggestion.
This is the essence of my argument here. If 4 marriages were allowed only to help widows and divorcee then no Muslim men would ever be obligated to help any fifth woman ever. If fifth woman can be helped without marrying her then why the similar non-marital help cannot be extended to woman number 2, 3 and 4. Point again is same. Helping needy women is not the reason why Islam allowed 4 marriages.