Re: Men shortage
Not even a single desi let alone muslim in my class. I dated couple of class mates but didn’t see any longterm potential or future with them. I am not super religious but I follow most of what Islam says and want kids to be muslim etc, so it was better to break it off than to carry on which could never be.
There are not many pportunities so will see what happens. Internet rishta websites thing doesn’t work so I no longer go on that. Honestly, those websites ask for money which I don’t have. Going to a diff place for rotations in couple of months but that is also predominantly white neighborhood. I am little bit opening to the idea of other girls if I don’t find any brown ones. In the end, its all about being a good person with upstanding morals and helping others which is the essence of islam or any religion.
and yes not interested in marrying anyone from back home. No offense but that whole visa process thing and waiting and getting used to life here is a lot to deal with
Yeah man those websites are a waste. And won’t get any easier during residency training unless you went to a major city (NYC, LA, Chicago, Houston, etc) so not many opportunities.
Anyone been to the ISNA or APPNA rishta events? Worth attending? What type of crowds come out to those events?