So we usually talk about women who are physically and mentally abused by their husbands but choose to stay with them for whatever reasons…
What about men who choose to stay with wives who abuse them in some way or the other. What kinds of abuse do men experience?
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Mental torture and emotional blackmail as well as kaan ki chutki and purple nipples ( the last may be my imagination). I have a feeling most men go through atleast one of the said abuse forms ...at the hands of their biwi's.
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purple nipples 
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Mental torture and emotional blackmail as well as kaan ki chutki and purple nipples ( the last may be my imagination). I have a feeling most men go through atleast one of the said abuse forms ...at the hands of their biwi's.
ouch..biwi k jungli billi :p
on a serious note I think, emotional blackmail is the most common form of abuse by women IMO. They are that good at it :p
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A guy I knew was going through abuse , she would scratch him like a cat. He was enduring it because they had two pretty little kids . The reason I would think was that his income was not fulfilling her dreams. Once he took her to her home country and left here there and told her and her parents that if she does not behave or does not want to live happily he is ready to divorce her. She got tamed after that. In the meantime he got a high paying job too.
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a girl on my street threw her husband down the stairs and broke his arm! i think some men deffo need to grow a pair...
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Mental torture and emotional blackmail as well as kaan ki chutki and purple nipples ( the last may be my imagination). I have a feeling most men go through atleast one of the said abuse forms ...at the hands of their biwi's.
I just hope that if not all then at least in case of purple nipples, they are going through it by the hands of their biwis.
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Tlk…ghar ke raaz ghar mein hi rehnay dejiye 
See…its just funny and so not serious when we discuss abused men… This thread will never get the hissy fits the other threads have gotten about abused women…Its like… Wmen cant do damage to a man like a man can to a woman. Its just so not happening…Tis was a topic on dr.phil recently… And ho estly… It was such a light atmosphere…audience was laffing and phil man was so jovial…when they discuss female abuse…its like hell has frozen over!
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purple nipples ? 
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Men complain a lot less because they feel its a blot on their musculinity.
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A guy I knew was going through abuse , she would scratch him like a cat. He was enduring it because they had two pretty little kids . The reason I would think was that his income was not fulfilling her dreams. Once he took her to her home country and left here there and told her and her parents that if she does not behave or does not want to live happily he is ready to divorce her. She got tamed after that. In the meantime he got a high paying job too.
LOL you seem to know a lot of messed up families.
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LOL you seem to know a lot of messed up families.
Yes this world is full of weirdos.
And this is life you come across all kinds of people who look up to you for help.
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Hmm…most men don’t talk about it I suppose. Simply because it would hurt a mans’ ego and pride if everybody found out he got beaten by a women…sorry, but even typing that made me laugh. LOL. (Although, it is serious…we should be serious). Ha ha ha ha. 
On a serious note, it is pretty bad, and just because we don’t hear about it, it doesn’t mean it is any better than abuse inflicted on women. This probably happens to Pakistani men from abroad who marry Western women; more than it happens to any other men.
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my ear lobes are still red/scratched from last 'chutki' she took and to put salt on wounds she follows it up with
"pyaar main, janu pyaar main"
na karoo yaar :(
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men in abusive relationships is not as uncommon as one would think........and they don't only take the abuse because they "didn't grow a pair".
I know of one guy that would get beaten, scratched etc and put up with it because he refused to raise his own hand. He would simply find a way to leave the room/house etc. Once she even chased him onto the street with fists flailing etc.....
God these women sound mad! But it does happen. I still think you should not tolerate abuse - no matter if you are a male or female and if things can't be talked about, rectified after time away or even after family intervention and counselling then there should be serious thoughts about their future together
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my ear lobes are still red/scratched from last 'chutki' she took and to put salt on wounds she follows it up with
"pyaar main, janu pyaar main"
na karoo yaar :(
u ki bv zalim hai. :@:
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i think, they experience Cursing all the time!! 
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So we usually talk about women who are physically and mentally abused by their husbands but choose to stay with them for whatever reasons...
What about men who choose to stay with wives who abuse them in some way or the other. What kinds of abuse do men experience?
If wife has like half a dozen built bro's then there r more chances of getting physically abuse. In most cases i think they torture u emotionally ! thats what woman r good at.
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meri biwi mujhe bahaut maarti hai. :(