pretty or beautiful or said they had nice eyes, what would you think of that? I just need to know if I am over reacting…
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Yes you are . Its normal .
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But would you over react too if you were in that situation?
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Nah.I wouldnt overreact.
I'd just kill him:@:
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I dont think its a big deal ...
... but I have to check with the guys whose wives are complimenting me all the times.
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Okays then I'll go with the killing him over the phone route! Thanks Princess!
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kill him. my husband doesnt even say anything, il ask him is she pretty if he has to pause even for a sec to think about it, i stab the screwdriver in between his eyess......
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i'll tell you why i don't overreact - if mr.stoppit has noticed someone is pretty or beautiful or has nice eyes, chances are that i noticed it too and was thinking the same thing - one of us will end up vocalising it. but it doesn't happen often, because takes something exceptional for a comment.
beauty is beauty, we all notice it, no need to chastise your other half over it.
kill him. my husband doesnt even say anything, il ask him is she pretty if he has to pause even for a sec to think about it, i stab the screwdriver in between his eyess......
Nahhh I might need him one day, so just kicking him out could also work.....
i'll tell you why i don't overreact - if mr.stoppit has noticed someone is pretty or beautiful or has nice eyes, chances are that i noticed it too and was thinking the same thing - one of us will end up vocalising it. but it doesn't happen often, because takes something exceptional for a comment.
beauty is beauty, we all notice it, no need to chastise your other half over it.
The thing is, I'm not even jealous over it. I really don't care but the thing is that he didn't even tell me, but if I were to do something like that.... "Oh there's that one green eyed bugger..."
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I KNOW what u mean, i never get jealous either, but still makes me mad...hmmmmm
I KNOW what u mean, i never get jealous either, but still makes me mad...hmmmmm
Maybe it's subconcious jealousy.... Nahhhh he's already stuck with me lol, so no need to be jealous, but idk it just annoyed me and annoyed me = pissed off me.
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sounds like jealousy over me. not over the beauty of the other woman but that someone else has occupied your husband's thoughts for a second.
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I dont care if its about a random person/celebrity etc. But if its about one of my/our friends, I don't like it. Probably because there is a good chance that if him and I break up, he can date those girls. But then, knowing him and them, it wont go anywhere. And us breaking up isn't likely, at least at this point in time.
I will hopefully get over that tad bit of insecurity with time. Thankfully, he hasn't done that more than twice in 3 years.
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I don't know stoppit, I just ughhhh... I feel like it's such a double standard when it comes to that too....
And I wanted some of the guys to come here and post what they think.......not that you girls aren't being helpful, but I wanted to see if they see it the same way we do when something like that happens.
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i dont think that its too big of a deal, my fiance complements ppl but wid in boundaries :k:
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I don't even know if he is still friends with this girl or where he knows her from.....
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^ Stalk him you might out more 
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whats the big deal?
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See I knew this would happen. Guys think it isn’t such a big deal but the girls get what I’m saying. :sigh: It’s just that I don’t even know this girl, if he is still in contact with her, where he met her or anything, and he kept all of that from me, but I would have told him everything. I think that’s the thing that is making me go crazy the most, that he isn’t reciprocating that trust.