Men if your fiance or significant other called someone of the other sex....

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well double standards are never good.

i say what i think about men too. but rarely is there anything to compliment :(

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Re: Men if your fiance or significant other called someone of the other sex…

something for girls to learn :slight_smile:

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Oh I can totally do that "I'm his wife!! Back off St" stuff!! Just sorta hard to do across continents, on FB where my entire family is added along with my dad, or just online considering we only talk once a day.**

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Re: Men if your fiance or significant other called someone of the other sex....

I don't really understand what's going on?

Your husband told you some girl is pretty? Or he told someone else on FB that they are pretty?

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Re: Men if your fiance or significant other called someone of the other sex....

He told some girl on FB that I don't even know how he knows, that her eyes are pretty. And we are only engaged not married yet. He also said that a couple of days ago and never told me. If I had done something like that he would've been all jealous and like you don't trust me and stuff like that. I feel like he doesn't give me the same level of trust that I give him and that's what just makes me sad. I know I'm probably over reacting to this, but for me, trust is a huge thing. I mean, the only reason he made a FB was because he found a email in my inbox from a FEMALE FRIEND who he thought was male and got pissed off. Then I also gave him the password to my FB so he could see for himself. Whenever I change my password I give it to him, but he doesn't do that for me. I just don't know....what I'm supposed to feel or what I'm supposed to do.

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Re: Men if your fiance or significant other called someone of the other sex....

read the thread's title fast for a possibly better and less boring thread.

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:(

I see. Yeh, well, neither of us would ever do anything like that. There are self imposed boundaries of how we would interact with other people.

I get ya on the trust thing. I think the reason he wants to check up on you is so he can make sure you're not doing the kind of thing he does himself. Therefore, he must know he is doing something that he shouldn't really be.

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You just read the 'sex' bit didn't you?

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no but that's a nice thread too.

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I would scratch his eyeballs out.

Just kidding!

That is a little odd though.

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If its just a compliment I wouldnt pay much attention unless he is actually perving on tht girl :ASA:

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meh....I wouldn't worry myself over it

but the whole you sharing your password and he not giving his scenario is just kinda weird

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I did happen to think it was heading into menage a trois territory.

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*I think that was in response to his idiotic friends. In the beginning of our engagement it was because of them putting ideas in his head that he needed that reassurance. I think they're against western pakistani girls or something. Idiots...... *

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I hope not.... I think it's still mostly the mentality that guys are guys and can do whatever they want but girls have restrictions on everything.....I tell ya if he even suggests treating our kids(inshallah) differently, I'll punch his face in....yes I am a very violent person sometimes in you tick me off.

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I can sense that control is going to be a big issue for you guys if facebook passwords and comments are already causing suspicion and hurt feelings. It's best that you talk to him directly on what you think is appropriate contact between him and the opposite sex, and vice versa. This way both of you are comfortable and can avoid further discomfort. Distance probably causes more stress than anything too, so take that into consideration.

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I personally don't think it's a big deal. It's just a facebook, as long as he isn't complementing her face to face. You girls like to blow everything out of proportion and get insecure very easily. That was one of the "issue" me and my ex had, she would easily get insecure even to an extent if i talk to Desi female classmates on facebook and joke around with them. ( And no not flirtatious and vulgar jokes). huhhh! you ladies!

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Hes cheating. You need to dump him ASAP. You deserve better than this.

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You can easily take care of the problem.
When you go out , blindfold him. :woho:

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Re: Men if your fiance or significant other called someone of the other sex…

saying it to the other person directly of how beautiful their whatever is … is really not on …

other than that … my hubby and i are always appreciating beauty together :smiley: … there’s no harm in thats … God creates beautiful things you know … :meeno: and we cant help but notice