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Someone tell thi delhi guy about the three consecutive posts rule. 
Instead of writing the essay in five separate parts, do it in one. Not like anyone is going to read the whole thinf anyway.
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D6C just got raised to ranks of X2, and TLK.
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This thread is still alive? Wow.
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D6C just got raised to ranks of X2, and TLK.
So there are some good men out there?..even pakistani american ones :)
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Thanks for letting me know Chacha Ghalib. What would us newbies do without such guidance from the experienced. Im new to this place and though im meant to have read all the rules. i had a glance but i don’t remember them in detail. I have 2 warnings for posting links and yt videos, how many more do i have left? Is it 9 lives we get here or is that only for cats?
Iss bahar short post kiya hai. Someone told me my comments are like the kiss of death for any thread. After i post there is lambi khamoshi but that’s not true because look at this thread..it keeps going.
So what is the 3 consecutive posts rule. If you post 3 in a row do you get banned? or do you get suspended or something or just another warning?
PCG i love the fact how you liked this comment above but meri aur koi doosri comment abhi tak like nahi ki. Guess they didnt make the cut.
But following rules doesn’t suit my mardangi. I make my own rules and people follow them. Ghar pe chooriyan nahi pehni hai and im not going to sing choori kankegi…anywhere outside my bathroom.
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So there are some good men out there?..even pakistani american ones :)
Some people go for divorcees
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Some people go for divorcees
if they're a good person then why not but best to know the reason for divorce and to see if they've changed.
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Thanks for letting me know Chacha Ghalib. What would us newbies do without such guidance from the experienced. Im new to this place and though im meant to have read all the rules. i had a glance but i don't remember them in detail. I have 2 warnings for posting links and yt videos, how many more do i have left? Is it 9 lives we get here or is that only for cats? Iss bahar short post kiya hai. Someone told me my comments are like the kiss of death for any thread. After i post there is lambi khamoshi but that's not true because look at this thread..it keeps going. So what is the 3 consecutive posts rule. If you post 3 in a row do you get banned? or do you get suspended or something or just another warning?
PCG i love the fact how you liked this comment above but meri aur koi doosri comment abhi tak like nahi ki. Guess they didnt make the cut.
That was an off-topic and irrelevant post, and you did not need to reply to it.
On the topic: There is an over-whelming number of women on this forum that complain about and demand equality without fully understanding the repercussions. But when someone logs off GS, the rules of engagement and situational parameters are completely rebooted. What anyone should be careful of is the idea that if, for example you make the guy work an unconventional share of the work, he will also eventually retaliate and stop ignoring numerous things about you that he did in the past. This is what I always suggest, pick a fight that you can win. But here, on this forum, it is mere talk and impractical suggestions from most contributors. And should only be taken only as passage of leisure time.
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That was an off-topic and irrelevant post, and you did not need to reply to it.
On the topic: There is an over-whelming number of women on this forum that complain about and demand equality without fully understanding the repercussions. But when someone logs off GS, the rules of engagement and situational parameters are completely rebooted. What anyone should be careful of is the idea that if, for example you make the guy work an unconventional share of the work, he will also eventually retaliate and stop ignoring numerous things about you that he did in the past. This is what I always suggest, pick a fight that you can win. But here, on this forum, it is mere talk and impractical suggestions from most contributors. And should only be taken only as passage of leisure time.
I guess but I am a polite person. If someone replies to me or if i am talked about in a comment i feel the urge to reply. Maybe it's silly in my part and maybe its something that no one will ever read but meri aadat hai ab. I could send a PM but i like to reply in the mode the comment was made. If i get a warning then that's just the way life is.
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I’m barred from cooking and cleaning. 
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kyun yaar kya hua? ghar burn down toh nahi hua right. I burnt the kettle once and ek baar i was making daal and then it exploded everywhere. sigh i should be improving my cooking skills rather than being on gs.
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All I did was almost burn down my kitchen… 
My sisters won’t even let me make breakfast. Lol. I’m loving it either way.
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So wrong man. That’s way harsh. At least you didn’t burn down the living room just the kitchen. That way you’d all have an excuse to eat take out every day. 
How are people meant to learn if you don’t burn down things the first couple of times. Koi samajh tha hi nahi hai. It’s a direct challenge to your mardangi dude. Don’t let them win. Surprise them one day. Wake up early make something deluxe glamorous and give them breakfast in bed. And be like here. Here’s my Italian breakfast with Spanish toppings. Bet you can’t beat that. They’ll be shocked and be listening to you all day long. True story 
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Suck so much at it, that nobody asks you to do it again…!
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I think guys make a mess in the kitchen. Its better that they stay way.
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Yes that strategy works for some guys. I tried that too but begum made me cleanup …so more work. 
I never tried it after that
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^ Agar aap bhi kitchen ko eik dufa aag laga dete tou shayed aisa na kurna purta. Khair ab tou pakrai hougayi, ab aapka kuch nahi hou sukta. 
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Cha gye
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Ummm my MIL's blood pressure goes through the roof if she sees any of her sons do anything. She preaches all the time that its not their job to do household chores. She actually yells at them to sit down if she sees them do something. Thank you Allah mian I don't have to see her that much cuz I wouldn't be able to take it. I wish I had known this before marriage.