Men Can't Be Monogamous

[niyal]

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another thought is women cannot be monogamous at times .. *they keep clinging onto men like monkeys unless they find another *

a dialogue from the movie MI2

[Ex-Guppan]

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@nia_khan

if he cheats... he might as well find the safest place he can possibly be at :D

A true woman can take anythign but not another woman in her man's life.

I am one of those i want it all Or I want Nothing.. i dont take things in bits and pieces....

i will beat the hell out of him and then leave him

Fully Endorsed :D

[Muzna]

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Anyone that defines their womanhood by their ability to see another woman in their man's life has a lot to learn.

Here is an example.....

One woman is unable to have children. Her husband loves her no less. He remains faithful but his longing for progeny is obvious to her. She implores him to take another wife.......and stays with him.

Tell me she's not a true woman. I dare you.
As far as I am concerned.....she IS woman. All woman. The symbol of self-sacrifice...self-less love personified.

[SindSagar]

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Sarah Wife of Abrahim elahisalaam did it, and guess what it got us:- **
**that was the begining of the Arab Isreali War!!!

[PrinceMS]

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We men have to think about ahem procreation every 6 seconds or so ... that doesn't help either :LB:

[NaTaLia]

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You are right but the issue is totally different, I know women these days are no different then men. I am not saying that men are unfaithful they can be faithful to their wives -body wise- but not mind wise. The body can be constrained, but I'm asking can their minds be as well?

@Anwaar Qureshi

If any woman wants to argue about only men enjoying the so-called variety [which by the way, Islamically does not even exist], will she be willing to enjoy it too if offered? Just a rhetoric question to measure up the honesty in the thought.

[Muzna]

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@NaTaLia

You are right but the issue is totally different, I know women these days are no different then men. I am not saying that men are unfaithful they can be faithful to their wives -body wise- but not mind wise. The body can be constrained, but I’m asking can their minds be as well?

Absolutely.
What if the wife is such that everytime a man’s mind goes in that direction, that’s every six seconds according to some , he can think of no other?

[faizy]

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i think i'm the youngest, so i will wear a steel chaddi, and top-body armour and what like to say:

as men grow old, from BOYS to MEN, they start realizing the nature of lives they lived, what they gained, and what they lost, so slowly that boyish nature of poly flowers goes away.. its an age thing.. they realize with time, that they shouldnt have done things certain way.. they learn slow.. and as they're dying/really old, they finally get it.. it takes a LONG time to ACTUALLY GET IT ..

no, i'm not defending men or myself :-) i'm simply stating, that with age and time, life straightens everyone out ..

women should be just happy that they're better half of us :-)

[Muzna]

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@faizy

women should be just happy that they’re better half of us

if men would just admit it…women would just be happy…

[faizy]

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well not everyone’s gay like me muzz (before u smack me, gayness = THIS honesty thing i have going on these days, a lost trait)

[fallenpieta]

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@niyal

exceptions occur where people are dumb

Not at all. People cheat for all sorts of reasons due to a lack of physical contact all the way to emotional support. A man or a woman may love their spouse but love is not a guarantee for sex or emotional support. I have a friend who loves his wife after so many years of marriage but now complains of their emotional connection dwindling down. He loves his wife but cannot help venture off course once in a while just to talk to someone. Will this lead him astray?

So I’ll just reiterate my point: not all people who cheat are dumb. They cheat obviously because they aren’t getting it at home.

[Muzna]

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@fallenpieta

So I’ll just reiterate my point: not all people who cheat are dumb. They cheat obviously because they aren’t getting it at home.

And “it” does not necessarily have to be sex.

[ashtray]

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it doesnt what else ?

[Rocking_vibes]

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Men can never be monagamous and ALLAH TAL knew it so he gave all men freedom to have 4 wifes at a time !!

[initiator]

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have you guys read the 'Old cow, new cow theory"?

[fallenpieta]

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@Muzna

And “it” does not necessarily have to be sex.

“It” is always always sex! I was talking about the other it.

[expatobserver]

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@The Voice

Men just like a little variety thats all :D

Har roz jalebi khanemen kya mazaa hain?

[Furqan]

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@Rocking vibes

Men can never be monagamous and ALLAH TAL knew it so he gave all men freedom to have 4 wifes at a time !!

Try having 4 wifes…i’d like to see what will become of you NOW.
Somelaws were for those times or under special conditions…but since u dont have those conditions now stop thinking about having 4 wifes Unless ur a royal king

[NaTaLia]

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you are gay:hoonh: end of story:halo:

@faizy

well not everyone’s gay like me muzz (before u smack me, gayness = THIS honesty thing i have going on these days, a lost trait)

[Rocking_vibes]

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@Furqan

Try having 4 wifes...i'd like to see what will become of you NOW. Somelaws were for those times or under special conditions...but since u dont have those conditions now stop thinking about having 4 wifes :) Unless ur a royal king

So BIG Deal, If you can't afford 4 wives at a time then divorce the first one before you marry the second one (Use and throw Policy) ALLAH knew that Men can never be MONOGAMOUS, and he made this rule favouring men. WAY TO GO !!