**I just watched the movie Denial and it basically talks about how being monogamous is unnatural and we’re only monogamous because people expect us to. “Pretending to be monogamous make honorable men lie” was one of the lines which I found to be interesting.
It may seem a bit hard to be grasp this concept at first but after giving it some thought, I do agree with the title to an extent. I mean being monogamous is a state of mind and body. And I think men can’t control the “mind” aspect of it. They might be faithful to the ladies with their bodies, but not their minds. I mean, watching stupid movies, and maybe thinking about other women, may not constitute as being polygamous, but it may constitute as cheating. Maybe no one can be ‘monogamous’ if that is the case, but hey we can’t prosecute a man for his thoughts.
There was another line which I seemed to agree with but I do have my doubts. It basically said that a man may be with other women, but he always goes home to the one he loves and that woman means the world to him.
Is there any truth to what I’m saying? Does it make sense? or Is it one of those things that only I could comprehend? Can men really be faithfully monogamous?
I guess ladies we better accept that ‘fact’ and just be happy and content if our man loves us. **
I was reading a very interesting interview of Oliver Stone and he implied the same thing. He says he can't be monogamous and his wife (Asian descent) is fine with it.
Women are always welcome to explore variety of their own. What man would discourage his wife/gf from bringing other women to his bed?
If any woman wants to argue about only men enjoying the so-called variety [which by the way, Islamically does not even exist], will she be willing to enjoy it too if offered? Just a rhetoric question to measure up the honesty in the thought.
since when have girls gotten the strengte to beat a guy:p..wrestler hain app jo app dosri larkiyooon sai
alag hain:p…hummara haaath bahoot bahari hota hai us sai app ko bachna chaiye:snooty: …
Marriage, contrary to popular belief, is actually more beneficial for men than it is for women. No, i am not talking about the research which shows that married men are more healthy than single men. No, I am not talking about the Cosmo BS about how marriage fulfills the emotional needs of man. Nor am I talking about the evolutionary concept of the need for two parents for the upbringing of a human offspring which, of all animals, take the longest to mature. I am talking about sex. Yes, S-E-X, sex.
Think about a society called Gupshupia where marriage is taboo. A thing of the past. A horrendosly binding ritual ancestors used to perform eons ago. A ritual as despicable as slavery and only slightly better than prostitution.
Today, women in Gupshupia are free, indepndent who contribute equally to society. They choose their own mates for pure sexual pleasure. There is no pressure, no biological clock ticking, no monogamy and, of course, no marriage. They choose to have children at their own discretion without any societal pressure. Gupshipa is very much like the serengeti plains where lions roam in prides. Yes, one lion, the alpha of the group, the protector, the one with the biggest mane, mates with 90% of the females, while 90% of the males lurk around in the bushes jerking off to the female lions like pasty white basement dwelling sci-fi convention sockfcukers.
Shudders!! Sadly, we are slowly moving in that direction. If you are a bald, stocky man with piss poor credentials, grab yourself a bottle of jergens. It's going to be one loooooong lonely life in a society where only 10% of the handsome men will be mating with the 90% of the females once institution of marriage falls apart. Men, it's in your own interest to say no to polygamy, suppress that instinct and settle down with one woman. You heard it here first. For that, thank me later.
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dude you gonna die.
