Re: men are totally wierd
After an intimate relationship, its very difficult to go back to being just 'friends'. Intimacy breaks a barrier in a friendship and takes it somewhere you wouldn't go with other people. Naturally its more deep and emotional (whether its a relationship or a feeling expressed) for a woman than for a man so they find it harder to adjust after. Maybe after many months apart you can start looking each other in the eye and talk near that friendship level again.