Who do we blame. The girl that wears full clothes that are slightly see through and whatnot or clothes that just about cover her OR the guy that can’t keep his eyes to himself and has a look and then says Astagfirullah, she should not be wearing that.
Men :ugh:
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If he looks you look too say somethign like "ohh i hope he wear a cod piece when he plays cricket..wouldn't want him to damage that"
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dhoop mai nikla na karo roop ki raani, kahin gora rang kaala na par jaye.
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This question is in line with the jury deciding that the girl who happened to be wearing a miniskirt was "asking" to be raped.
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^ and what is your view Muzna. Do women who wear miniskirts deserve to be raped?
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No PD, they don't deserve to be raped. No woman, dressed or clad in her birthday suit deserves to be raped. Not even if she's leading you on.
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^ ur onto only opinions or wana know wat islam says abt it .. ?
DISCO DUCK: hunny as guys are a bit pervs .. think of this .. why wud u wana show ur skin anyways ? ohhh ! thats just fashion rite ? but who creats fashions ? the model who get paid for showing their skin :)
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Bombiya, tell me what islam says about women wearing miniskirts.
And he model doesn’t create the fashion, people do. Designers get their inspiration from the people on teh streets, models wear what the designers create. gosh you pakistanis are so unfashionable.. 
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Um, going back to the topic…
Men like that are typical mullah hypocrites. They should be seated and TAUGHT how stupid they are and that they need to change the way they think…but they were brainwashed to think that way to begin with, so if you want to reverse the brainwashing, you might have to resort to brainwashing techniques.
:halo:
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Women want to be looked at. By wearing mini skirts, tiny chaddis, push bras, make up and see through clothes they are seeking our (men's) approval. Too bad they have low self-esteem.
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What do you expect us to do? Pluck our eyeballs out of the sockets..
Just as men shouldn’t perve, women should dress properly..
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u blame the guy that looks and says astagfirullah and then looks again and again and keeps on saying astagfirullah......
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Agreed. :k:
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sahi to a certain extend. waisay u r a guy?
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Chel Chabeela, contrary to what they taught you in your Islamic school, women who don't dress appropriately does not give the muslim man the PERMISSION to look at her with widely open eyes. Woh bhi, for like more than a second.
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women get raped in burqah as well sugar free, i wonder what ur take on that issue is? obviously they are not asking for it.. so what could be the reason behind it?
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Does it then go that if women dressed properly, men wouldn’t perve?
What about the women in burqa getting raped?
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Why blame anyone? The ones who dress that way want to, those who look at them want to. If I consider it immoral, that's a relative judgment. Isn't it?
This is not to say you can't profess your form of morality but as far as they feel the same way, no one is to blame. When you don't know that you are doing something wrong, how can you be blamed for it?
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This guy at the gym never wears underwear. U just reminded me of it 
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and that’s Friday at Gupshup’s Life1 section 