Better advice would be to take care of your children and not leave them alone with relatives. If your children feel uncomfortable or uneasy around certain relatives then don’t just brush it off…keep your children away from such relatives. Sure we should all dress decently but that won’t be of much use if your relative is a sexual predator.
Also, what in your opinion would be ‘appropriate dressing’ in front of mehram?
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oh if yes parents have any such doubts yet they still leave their kids with such people just cause its only a doubt then parents will be really stupid. but you do have people who pretend to have “good mask” on their face yet they are evil from inside.
as for appropraite dressing in front of the mehrem-well it will be probably no tight outfits which are forming body shape etc. it really hard to say anything like that since we do have girls who wear for example tight skinny jeans but obviously they dont wear it just cause they wanna light the fire…they merely wear it for fashion.**
Something tells me Josef Fritzl didn’t assault, abuse, rape and imprison his daughter just because her clothing might have been inappropriate. I doubt Fritzl would have not abused his daughter if she had worn a burka at home/in front of him all the time.
Also, as a parent, if you have realized/noticed that your spouse is perving on your child, then you should keep your children away from your spouse by any means necessary if you care about your child’s well being.
oh yes he had a sick mind anyway. i wasnot pointing out what he did to her was because of the clothing etc. my mere point was that people were in denial that such thing cannot happen btw real father daughter so referenced this case.