Mehram Precautions

[Marmalade]

Re: Mehram Precautions

@blessed2006

so how about those young girls who are merely under 12 yrs and they get dirty looks by their close relatives???

sexual abuse/dirty looks is just not limited to ladies/girls but boys are a victim of it too.

both men and woman:
should dress appropriately
should lower their gaze in event of someone is inappropraitely dressed up
parents should give proper teaching regarding this
should speak about any such incident

aise harkatain wohi kare ga jo gandi zaheneeyat ka/ki maalik ho.

Better advice would be to take care of your children and not leave them alone with relatives. If your children feel uncomfortable or uneasy around certain relatives then don’t just brush it off…keep your children away from such relatives. Sure we should all dress decently but that won’t be of much use if your relative is a sexual predator.

Also, what in your opinion would be ‘appropriate dressing’ in front of mehram?

@blessed2006

what RAW is saying (dirty looks given by father) is true and happens (very sadly). And we have a known case of Josef Fritzl- **Elisabeth Fritzl. **though not muslims but yes a real father-daughter story.

Something tells me Josef Fritzl didn’t assault, abuse, rape and imprison his daughter just because her clothing might have been inappropriate. I doubt Fritzl would have not abused his daughter if she had worn a burka at home/in front of him all the time.

Also, as a parent, if you have realized/noticed that your spouse is perving on your child, then you should keep your children away from your spouse by any means necessary if you care about your child’s well being.