In news we come across all kinds of weird true stories. I am not sure that such sickness of mentality is because of the desperation due to late marriages and too much weird movies watched by bachelors or anything else. I have realized from some of the cases that I have read and came to know that it is better for a woman to also try to keep her duppatta correct when in front of even mehrams like a FIL, unmarried uncles (Mamoo’n, chacha…etc)… Unfortunately, there are a lot of people who think it is perfectly fine to remain casual in dressing in a joint family system, specially when they wake up in the morning and prepare breakfast in a dress that is badly out of shape and doesn’t cover them properly (open buttons etc.). They even at times think of the male house maids as part of their family, who (bechara) hasn’t been taught about lowering his gaze so he secretly keeps on developing extra electricity inside of himself through the receptor cells of his eyes.
Sorry, for such a sensitive issue but due to many other fitnas rising, I have come to know of some daughters who don’t feel comfortable by the look they get by even very close relatives such as their own educated and decent brothers and fathers. There was a time when I couldn’t even think for a second about this disgusting issue, but times have changed (as evident by daily life news we hear).