How do u meet eligible young Paki guys and girls in the USA? I am 27 in the tristate area, well-educated, goal-oriented, but it’s been so hard to try to find someone suitable to develop a relationship with that may lead to…uhuhm…marriage. Any advice?
LOL! Gupshup should start their own matrimonial site now!
First of all post a pic. j/k
You are bold
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I don’t know but University and local mosque will definitely have some potential candidates.
Mona where in the trystate area are you and why are you in the image gallery?
Jaan LeY Hi JaUn ViChoRay*
People these days have such high demands that its so hard to find what they are looking for..!
Go in an auntie-party. I am serious.
Alright serious advice now, I am around your age and single, haven’t found my dream prince yet
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my motto is not to look purposely for anyone, as I know if I do, I will not find anyone suitable and will be depressed afterwards, as I dont want this, I am concentrating on other things, education, career, hmm cooking, working at home and family, when the time is ripe I will find a suitable match and marry even if it means I will go over 30, does not scare me anymore. I would rather use my energy to improve myself as to cry over something thats not in my hands to decide. I know some ppl will disagree with crap talk keh that the girl is old and and stuff and I should try to find someone but I don’t care, as I know even if I am around 30 when I marry I will be mature and will not marry as a naiave girl and even if the guy is around hmm 40 does not matter as long he is single I don’t mind.
Well look, I did get bold by opening this thread but honestly, I think that me and my friends that are in my age group are so frustrated with this issue that we just don't know what to do! I mean, I consider myself quite eligible and I seek someone like that also but darn it....it is difficult to find a guy that is truly well-rounded. Please don't joke about this issue...I am being serious. By the way, mosques and universities...been there done that, doesn't quite work. What else can one do? I AM attending a wedding soon...maybe I'll bump into someone there....? Hmmm...what else???
Moona, post your pics, there are many eligible bachelors on Gupshup!!! And a lot of them are in the states. Go visit my Chronic Bachelor thread in the General.
SaadiaB, that’s great advice and you’re absolutely right but let me tell you, it is natural to feel frustrated sometimes especially when it seems like the whole world around you is getting married except you. I’ll be 28 next month and well, I know it is in Allah’s hands but I hope Allah makes a move soon on my behalf! The good thing is that I have good friends who are in the same boat as me and we all tend to console each other on this topic
moona if by tristate area you mean NJ,NY, PA area you may want to look up teh south assian professionals society in PHilly. I forget the name but they are basically a group of younger educated professionals which have events to network, meet and socialize.
I bet you can meet some interesting people through that.
Okay, on a serious note, don't you have relatives who can scout for you? I mean, if they can hint to other people that there is a nice girl out there, word can get around quite fast. You need to let people know that you are looking!!
There is an ISNA meeting in DC , by the end of August , you can there too , best of luck
Mr. Fraudia, it would greatly help if u found out the name of this organization for me please
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Also, catwoman, the word’s been out there for a long while that my parents are looking and rishte’s come for me too but either it ends up happening that there’s a philosophical difference between the guy and me or something else or another. Gosh, I just want ONE person…why does this have to be so difficult??? I want an educated, motivated, and intelligent guy. It’s a plus if he looks decent too
Moona exctualy don’t let yourself down, things happpen with their time and like they say in urdu “har aaik ka time mumkamar hai” or something like that. I also have some friends in the same boat and its good to know that we are not alone.
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Phir jee, hum ke layiy be koui taveez laikh dee.
Thapsters!! when u get tired of sitting your ass down on those twiddling thumbs.. introduce Ms. won't-post-a-pic-moona to some eligible bachelors.. in a more appropriate forum.
SaadiaB, I will pray for you, me, and our still-bachelorette friends, ok
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-definitely. What country are you in anyhow? Let’s stay strong and “jo kismat mein likha hai…” whenever and with whoever it is…God knows best, like you said.
moona…i understand ur problem.. do one thing…
go to www.icna.com, find matrimonial servie and registered bt filling out the registration form provide confidential data for the candidate and for the spousal preference in the confidential data form.
just pay $50 and registered ur self..
then they will find ur match.. ppls go to bonton NJ to check if they have any match and then they will contact u..
one more thing.. are u comming in ISNA convention which will be held on the end of this august.. if u are comming thr.. they have seperate rooms for matrimonials whr u go and ask about it.. u will know the procedure..
and i guess guppies are planning to meet thr as well.. u can join that group and also go to matrimonial room…
if u r comming then let me know.. cuz i am going thr as welll for the same purpose.
v can contact thr as well..
lemme know or u can either send me PM..
Allah hafuz amber
wish u all the best…
[This message has been edited by proudpakistani007 (edited July 16, 2002).]