i went to Baltimore for ICNA connention last week.. and they have seperate rooms for that.. u go registered pay the themoney.. they will give u books whr u can looks for other match.. and evemn i got some matchs too.. not for my self.. but someone in my family.. rishtay ki baat chal rahi hia.. and this servicne is good.. u can sadia.. ICNA main ab tak 18000 logaon nay registered karaya hia aur bohat sare shaadian huay hian...
and ICNA is new if u go to ISNA they have thr as well...
Thanks Amber, the problem is that I live in Europe and the focus of ISNA or ICNA is maybe concentrated on the USA market, as I don't want to leave Europe when not really necessary, it might be of no use for me, but I like the idea of searching a book and finding a suitable match...hehe!
[This message has been edited by SaadiaB (edited July 16, 2002).]
Amber I edited it sorry, No I am not looking for someone actively but more passively, like I said if I find someone it is fine and if I don't it is fine too. I have nothing to loose in both ways.
Anyway do you know any such service for europe, it does not harm to take a look.
Proudpakistani and Brahmos, thanks for the information. I always tend to get the impression that ultra-religious people would register at the ICNA/ISNA organizations. I don't know. That's not what I'm looking for however. I am not too religious and not un-religious either...smack in the middle, I guess. The Boonton mosque is huge, I heard. I used to rely on word-of-mouth from aunti's but well, that's like a shot in the dark especially since I keep saying no for whatever reasons---compatibility, education, etc. What do you all think of matchmakers...you know, like Paki women who specialize in finding rishteys for a fee? I know of some people that are registered with them.
Sadia inshallah.. i will try to find out if thr is any matrimonial service available in Europe..will sure let u know theekk..
and moonaaa sister.. in ICNA/ISNA u dun necessary find too religious ppls thr.. i am telling u.. u got to be thr.. wahan par normal logoan kay proposals bhi hotay hian.. its just up to wat u want.. thr are ppls who r looking for complete hijabans and some ppls who just need a good life partner doesnt care about hijaabs or toooo much religious...
its just kay u registered ur self and write wat kinda person u r seeking... and then they will find ur match...
moona.. if u want u can send me PM and tell me about ur self.. may be i can find ur match as well.. cuz i knwo soem free sites as well..
dun ever hasitate to discuss this with us..yeh zindagi ka maamla hota hia..
and one more thing.. i am telling u as a sister.. thr is a very nice Wajeeefa in Quran shareeef... kehtay hian isay 21 days tak agar larki ya larkay kay parents parhain to bohat faida hota hia..
if u want i will scan it to u.. and u can give this to ur ammi or abu..lemme knwo if u want it.. or ask ur mom if she can do it..
i will tell u one site whr u can registered for free and they will send u email weekkly about ur match..
Sadia sorry sister if i m getting personel.. par that wajeefa is very nice.. khuda to kehta hia mujh say mango.. aur yeh wajeefay parhnay say kaafi rishtay huay hian.. (my aunty's experiace) isi liay if sadia ur mom can read that for u.. i will send to u as well...
[This message has been edited by proudpakistani007 (edited July 16, 2002).]
coconut, please stop your non-comical, immature comments!
proudpaki, thanks for your genuine advice…I truly appreciate it. Yeah, why don’t you go ahead and e-mail me the ayat from Qur’an majid. And please pray for me, Saadia, and yourself. Insh’allah Allah mian will hear your prayers if they’re from the heart.
Its interesting to see how a woman’s attitude changes between the ages from 20 to 30.
20- Dreaming of a prince..move on to the next candidate..Nakhra phase
22- Dreaming of a Porche…no compromises whatsoeva!! Meri jooti! phase
24- hmm yeah I’m still beautiful…those hips are not mine.. thaz just the mirror phase
26- Err hmm kidher ho spanoN kay raja? mosque, relatives, friends phase
28 Where the fudge is he…Frustration phase
30- Son of a @#$#
Oye Gunjay tu hi aa ja!!
Good luck ladies! btw TASWEER bhi koi cheez hot hai