Re: Meeting eligibile bachelorettes...
Lolz..Ronery, I hope cafe girls are not offended by your statement...lol
I would say just participate in different forums and if you feel attracted to someone by their talk (of course...lol) then just hit them a pm and maybe ask for msn and try to get to know the person on a more personal level. Same goes with facebook, join communities of your interest and participate in them and if you really like a certain poster then hit them with a message. Add your friends on your fb and if you find a friend's friend attractive or something then ask your friend to maybe introduce you.
You can also try naseeb, pretty much works the same way. lol
Like everyone said try more socializing by attending PSA/MSA events or your local Pakistani association events. Maybe add yourself on the mailing list of these different social organizations and they will keep you updated with all the different events throughout the year. 14th August, Eids, and Ramzan events normally have huge turn out and if you are not people shy then you shouldn't have problem making friends. So meet people, expand your social circle. Also, try to get to know people at your local masjid.
And yeah we always have the option of arrange marriage...lol... I am not a big fan of it...lol...not that it is a bad thing...lol... but yeah whatever...lol