Meera & her historic Kiss... "A Matter of Culture?"

**A matter of culture? **

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By Omar R. Quraishi
The whole controversy regarding Meera’s alleged onscreen kiss with Indian actor Ashmit Patel (of Murder fame) in a Mollywood film by the name of Nazar seems completely unwarranted and out of place. Not only that, it exposes the sanctimonious hypocrisy which seems to be becoming the hallmark among many sections of Pakistani society.

Triggered by a story let out by a Pakistani news agency quoting an unnamed official of the ministry of culture, who said that the ministry had decided to fine the actress for bringing her culture and religion into disrepute, the furore has snow balled into a situation where the actress, according to a report in the Times of India of March 3, has extended her stay in India and sought the help of the Pakistan government in providing security to her family in Lahore.

This she did after religious party activists went to her home in Lahore and threatened her family of dire consequences because of her role in the film.

Now there are several problems with this, not least the fact that since the film has yet to be released, what is all the fuss about. Second, what was the business of the culture ministry official passing judgment on an individual actress’s role in a yet-to-be-released foreign film?

Surely, the ministry has better things to do than to pass moral judgments on Lollywood heroines. Besides, if the scenes in the film were deemed “objectionable”, what has stopped the ministry from threatening similar action against those who act in Pakistani films since the latter are not exactly all that pristine either?

Once the story came in the media, the federal culture minister joined in saying that he was disappointed by the actress’s actions although he did not utter the threat of penalty mentioned earlier by the unnamed ministry official. Thankfully, the minister of state of the same ministry later said, and perhaps stung by the negative publicity the whole affair had generated overseas, clarified that the ministry had never contemplated any action against Meera. This was the first thing that came to some people’s minds since what law could the culture ministry have possibly used to fine the actress for working in a role in an overseas film.

The initial objection was that the actress’s onscreen conduct was unbecoming since she was supposed to be her country’s ambassador while abroad. Notwithstanding the fact that the film has not even been released yet, the same could easily be said of our ministers, members of parliament and senior government functionaries when they go overseas. But one did not find any senior ministry official (anonymous or otherwise) coming out in public and condemning the actions of the then (and now suspended) secretary of the National Assembly who, according to a report in the UK-based Daily Telegraph, was briefly arrested by London police on a rather juicy charge.

Clearly, it’s a lot easier for the retrogressive elements and assorted defenders/guardians of public morality in this country to pick on people like actors, models and musicians. In many instances, it is people in government who indulge in such reprehensible tactics, imposing their narrow definition and interpretation of Pakistani culture and values to impose their views on the rest of society. This takes the shape of misguided policies like those used by the MMA government in the NWFP where musicians and stage performers have been targeted and rendered jobless.

And sometimes it takes the shape of a mixture of personal zealousness and misuse of official authority as in Punjab where local officials have taken it upon themselves to rid society of such elements. In one recent case, one such official in Multan told theatre actresses that their profession was tarnishing the sanctity of their Islamic names and hence they would be better off adopting new ones.

The controversy has also shown just how riven and jealousy-ridden the Pakistani film industry is. Almost all the actresses and actors (barring Moammar Rana who told an Urdu newspaper that Meera had done nothing that merited such adverse reaction) said that they disapproved of what Meera had done. Most actresses said that Meera would “do anything for publicity” or that she “was only doing in India what she did in Pakistan”.

It seems that all of them, barring Meera of course, have never acted in roles which required them to bare their mid-riffs, dance around semi-naked in the rain or come within close range of a male colleague’s face or lips. Or, is it that a Pakistani actress should never have done what Meera did because the male acting colleague was an Indian, and a non-Muslim at that?

http://www.dawn.com/weekly/review/review3.htm
**10 March 2005 **

Re: Meera & her historic Kiss… “A Matter of Culture?”

first of all instead of stopping human traficking why waste time on one movie star?

Pakistan is a country of source, transit and transmission of women and children trafficked for sexual exploitation and bonded labour. While there are no exact figures regarding the trafficked people, the issue remains a source of concern for both governmental and nongovernmental bodies.
http://www.irinnews.org/report.asp?ReportID=44344&SelectRegion=Central_Asia&SelectCountry=PAKISTAN

Re: Meera & her historic Kiss... "A Matter of Culture?"

because ppl who actually care about this meera bullsiht are the same stupid fks who have nothign better to do than to bitch about what some woman is doing....

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What's the big deal? Our own Lollywood has much more dirty and vulgar things going on in their movies, much worse than a kiss.

We have far bigger ills in our society, so what if she kissed some bloke? She's only an actress, actresses are cheap women with no morals.

Behind the scenes women like that usually do a lot more than just kissing.

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they dint expect a film actress to go out and do tableegh did they????

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how many of you know the private life of bhutto?

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jumps up and down me, me, me…

I don’t know if it’s just propoganda or what lekin khawateen ko mulk ki Ameerah nahein hona chahiyey.

I almost had an heartattack reading that book because most my family were ardent supporters of PPP, it’s hard to believe looking at her in her Virgin-Mary Chadar and rosary in hand.

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Private life of Bhutto.......... is a book?

and what has she allegedly done? did she kiss an indian actor? or was it far worse than that...........did she kiss a pakistani actor?

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No one absolutly cares if Meera has kissed a Bollywood, hollywood, or lollywood actor. The main idea or the message of the writter was why the heck it is being turned into "A Big Cultural Matter" when it is not one.

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Now there are several problems with this, not least the fact that since the film has yet to be released, what is all the fuss about. Second, what was the business of the culture ministry official passing judgment on an individual actress's role in a yet-to-be-released foreign film?

Surely, the ministry has better things to do than to pass moral judgments on Lollywood heroines. Besides, if the scenes in the film were deemed "objectionable", what has stopped the ministry from threatening similar action against those who act in Pakistani films since the latter are not exactly all that pristine either?

The initial objection was that the actress's onscreen conduct was unbecoming since she was supposed to be her country's ambassador while abroad. Notwithstanding the fact that the film has not even been released yet, *the same could easily be said of our ministers, members of parliament and senior government functionaries when they go overseas. *
Clearly, it's a lot easier for the retrogressive elements and assorted defenders/guardians of public morality in this country to pick on people like actors, models and musicians. In many instances, it is people in government who indulge in such reprehensible tactics, imposing their narrow definition and interpretation of Pakistani culture and values to impose their views on the rest of society. This takes the shape of misguided policies like those used by the MMA government in the NWFP where musicians and stage performers have been targeted and rendered jobless.

And sometimes it takes the shape of a mixture of personal zealousness and misuse of official authority as in Punjab where local officials have taken it upon themselves to rid society of such elements. In one recent case, one such official in Multan told theatre actresses that their profession was tarnishing the sanctity of their Islamic names and hence they would be better off adopting new ones

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one of our relatives used to work as a driver in a hotel in rawalpindi and says he had ot take benazir many times to drop her home in the hotel’s car in a semi-naked state, passed out drinking…

such leaders we got… :k:

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Thankyou armughal, Looks like old benazir had a whale of a time when she was younger.

Lusi, clearly people do care about Meera kissing holly,bolly or lollywood stars......... Surely these important and busy men wouldnt have caused all theis furore over something so trivial.

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there is no historic kiss. Meera use to kiss lot in heera mandi, and that ain't historic

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good going...can't wait to see the movie :D

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Culture? What Culture? :rotfl:

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Pak Brave Heart - are you SURE of what you are saying? Do you have primary sources?

The very people who are jumping at her throat have no understanding of Islam to begin with.

What I find annoying is that they’re jumping at her actions in the movie BEFORE seeing the movie. How do you know its not some propaganda from the yellow press to sell newspapers?

When she came back to Pakistan a while ago, she was trying to get some protection from the police so that she could be escorted home and NO ONE would come to get her. YEAH OK. That’s real Islamic :k:

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The greatest Islamic scholar of the time has spoken

:jhanda:

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since when they though of actress as women of letters or so relegious apart from they do visit some darbar on weekly basis!

film actress/stage actress/a prostitute

all above are name of a same person at different level of prostitution. to make it film is only a way to get best rate and demand in the "market".

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It looks like these people have taken to and accepted this lady's screen persona as something that is their own, something that belongs to them. They watch her fillums and in their minds and poss dreams see her dance, swing and girate in a provocotive manner just for them. She becomes theirs. What they dont understand is that she is a human in her own right.

She left the country where she was known simply as an actress to another where she was known as a PAKISTANI ACTRESS,

TO those men the pak actress then becomes a Pak woman. PAKISTANI WOMAN is something that they have some kind of moral hold over, because they are Pak men and they have a duty to uphold the honour of a pak female.

This feeling becomes stronger if the woman happens to be in the land of the perceived enemy, land of idol worshippers and infidals and kashmir thiefs and where this woman decides with her own little mind to do something because (A) it is beneficial to her career wise (B)not something she considers not to be beyond HER moral parameters.

So you have a situation that snowballs from person that makes acomment or two to an uproar............. can only happen in Paks i guess.

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Kiss? It was worst than that!

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Indian and Pakistanis cant kiss anyways, it was probably a peck, and camera angles used in such a way that it looked like a hot steammy frencher...;) But thats all beyond the point:)