Re: Maybe… I am just too picky?
Ok soooooo FINALLY after like a bazillion years a guy (rishta) likes me! huzzaahhh
His mother called my mine and then my mum gave his mum my number and me and him have spoken 5 times. We have a 7 year age gap and he seems a normal person so far.
Now he wants to bring his parentals over to visit next month… so the issue is…
When I talk to him on the phone I can’t wait to hang up because I find him boring. He is nice and tries to make jokes he is not silent he actually talks however I honestly always find excuses to hang up because I get reallllllllly bored after 45 mins or so.
Now, I have read on here how one should be practical in these matters and how good men are hard to find. So am I just too picky? Sometimes I feel like I am a commitment phobe too, like a small part of my brain thinks that marriage = end of life I remember my friends mum once saying ’ shaadi se pehle apne aap ko maar do’ thats the only way to survive and my parents well I don’t think they get along that well although both are brilliant people they are just mere companions- I dont want that!
** The other issue is I have felt true chemistry before someone who I wanted to talk to alllll the time and someone who I could talk to for hours and hours and hours and who I got soo excited to talk to…but what are the chances of finding that again?**
So am I just being too picky?
(p.s. SK I got REALLY excited when this guy wanted to visit because I thought omggg I can make a new thread on GS
good luck finding an accomplished guy who would love to talk to you for hours and hours. We dont have that much time to waste. We like to keep it short and straight forward.