Jolie
July 25, 2011, 1:48pm
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Re: Marrying your cousin
The two most retarded posts in this entire thread.
Allah’s made divorce halal too, but he’s made it clear that that is the most disliked of all the things He’s made halal for us.
Just because it’s allowed, doesn’t mean you should DEFINITELY do it. It’s allowed because in certain circumstances, family pulls through for you. If you have a retarded child, it’s better to marry that child into the family because bahar kay kisi banday nay aa kar rishta nahin poochna. However, there is no guarantee that this rishta would be better than marrying outside the family.
Allah’s also said that “We have …] made you into nations and tribes that you may know one another.” Just goes to show you, it’s preferred by God Almighty Himself to go forth and marry into other families, not in your own family specifically.
Is there hadith saying the same thing about cousin marriage? If not, then its wrong to assume that somehow its as ‘disliked’ as divorce, as far as I’m concerned there’s no such evidence for that.