Marrying your best friend?

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That's another point I wanted to bring in but couldn't find the right words.

Do not marry your best friend but try to establish "best friendy" kinda thing with your spouse, that's my opinion on this matter.

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It'll be great couple.

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Re: Marrying your best friend?

asal kamaal to yeh h k shadi k bad apnay life partner ko best friend bana liya jayee

yeh zaroore nahi jo shadi say pehlay best frd ho woh baad main bhi rahay

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MajbooRii ka dosRaa naaam ’ **SHUKRIYA ** ’ :chai:

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:smilestar:

bhut achi baat kee hey aap nay :slight_smile:

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Actually it always has to be two ways. You get what you deserve. If you have no friends in your life, maybe you were never meant to. For myself, Daring V, i believe no one can care better for you than friends. I do have such friends who cry for me and laugh too. Friendship is a commitment and it would never suit vagabonds. Its substantial. And not a child's play. I have tested my friends. Esp once when I lost trust in the credence of relationship. But not all the five fingers are equal. Good people, like yourself, who believe in commitments, and going by them, you will also find in your way. And yes, these are the qualities that make a friend. Make a commitment and go by that. Otherwise you better stay alone.

Married people, was your first love, really a love?
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Mard majboor nahi hota ..us k ley to choice phir bhi rehtee hay

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:smack2: aurat kay liya bhe koi majboori nahin

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I agree

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Whats going on in this thread ya’all:konfused:

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well i think best friend would be a best partner
at least thats what i am looking for :chai:

a friend, on her shoulder i could vent everything
a friend, who i could trust with any thing
a friend, who i die to share any thing
a friend, who gives u hope no matter how down u r
a friend, having fun and giggling all the time
a friend, when u r with her u find relief

for me its the friendship that is more important than her looks or background

yeh best friend is the best candidate to marriage

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^Dearest Lafanti… Too true… but sometimes we think that we may know that person too well though they may turn more of a sour lemon once u’ve tied the knott down with, or maybe its tough luck shrugs
and ur input reeks of innocence.

For Venting, crying and giving u hope I recommend a shrink.
For relief I recommend a good paying job outputting heaps of money.
For sharing, I recommend a platonic best friend :@:
for having fun and giggling I recommend hanging out with littler kids.
And and trust me background and looks do matter in case of a spouse, unless u’re okay with having totally ouglie kids.
Friendship is handy in the mix as well, its a perfectly alright idea I’d say :slight_smile:

Keep your best friend for rainy days. At the same time try to invest into the marriage once tying the knott down and see where it goes…although I do recommend befriending her afore so u know what ur up against:halo:

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MeiN hamesha achhi bataiN kerta hooN

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Iconoclast, yar no offence but I reeely vant to say the word: Ijiot! Mie kub spouses ki baath kar rahi hon in that scenerio. I was talking purely of "BEST FRIENDS" that u've remained platonic with entirely and now the question is would you marry them, and lose them to the status of a 'husband/wife' in ur life, or rather keep 'em as best friends for ever? :@:
I think its not worth it to promote them to any other levels, they should remain friends na?

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Thawnks yar Mirage :@:

K237… Take Barbie and Ken on a ‘best friend tour’ around GS world… see they never married each other either and now Barbie is hanging out with another dude as a GF. I’ve heard she’s still bestfriends with Ken though. See now there’s a smark chic in Pink

Madam PG … u too not getting it :smack:
I’m actually totally against marrying best friends. And honestly I think spouses are spouses. There’s various levels of friendship one can share with every particular relationship in one’s life according to their sevral levels. Now to explain that perhaps lets knock on Mirche’s door to open up a new thread for this topic. I’ll come back to this another time :slight_smile: Its a whole different dimension …a new can of worms to fall into.

Yeah again I agree with you. That’s what I think too, but why doesn’t the rest of the lot thinks that? :bummer:

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let me send you a Pm. :slight_smile:

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Now commitment entirely would demand a new thread, asking what it means to ppl. Thats a whole new ball game :slight_smile: To me though, its everything but what value it has for the other significants, that is the question. Khair lets leave that out of the equation for now.
I would not agree on the ‘u get what u deserve’ bit for there’s infinite things I can list that ppl get and I don’t think that they deserve, especially bad things, so lets leave that bit out too :slight_smile:
So in the remaining argument, I too value friends highly. I believe just like you do, they are the sunshine and rain of one’s life. They help u grow, nurture and truly help u get a kick of life. I’ve survived by their virtue mostly, there’ve been time that I trully think some were just God sent, His angels in disguises. Doesn’t it wants u just to give Him the almighty a big fat squashing hug sometimes for gifting you with such blessed souls. Ahem. (Ok fatwa-giving hawk-eyeing me ppl, lay down the chapals, I’m sure my Allah wouldn’t mind my sentiments, and yes yes no need to worry, I know its not polite or correct to give Him humanly attributes, therefore seriously like: lay off na)

Alright, so instead of my best friend, I’m going to opt for a fellow prankster, who’ve set me up for a lot since I’ve opened my eyes :@:

any pearls of wisdom on that gupsters?The pro’s and cons of being eternally with a b.friend or a prankster turned mature :bummer:

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koi shuk nahi :clown:

but this 1 was remarkable :lajawab:

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Well i personally believe "they devil u know is better than the angel u dont"

i dono how do u define a best friend, but they way i look at it is that u know everything about him, and he knows everything about u, and u know wats u r gona face after the marriage and obviously ur comfort level with ur best friend is gona be in a very high zone.

and u can never know enough about someone u r going to get married if he/she is not ur best friend.

and arnt girl friends and boy friends indeed best friends to each other?? and then they see if they can find a particular understanding and comfort level between each other they get married, other wise they break up, so getting married with a best friend saves u will this hassel cuz u know that u have a comfort level and understanding between each other and u know EVERYTHING about him/her

and again, i would go for the devil i know than the angel i dont

~*~ Time Pass June 2012 ~*~