Okay pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease don’t kick this to life1,2,or 3 Mucho Gracias! (honestly…k, back to topic)
Is it a good idea? Especially when u’ve remained platonic with each other ur entire life…
How many can relate?
Okay pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease don’t kick this to life1,2,or 3 Mucho Gracias! (honestly…k, back to topic)
Is it a good idea? Especially when u’ve remained platonic with each other ur entire life…
How many can relate?
Re: Marrying your best friend?
yes,I dont see anything wrong in it if someone marries his/her best friend.I believe best friends make the best marriage partners..
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just a thought, arent best friends usually of the same gender? :S
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One of me mates married his best friend , then she became his wife ![]()
could be if ya R GHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaY ![]()
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^ Oh my, U stole my thunder with that ![]()
Not always Aisha ![]()
Plus one can have many best friends… atleast more than one for sure. and One of it happens to be of a convenient gender …
Shinning Star, but would that mean I’d lose a best friend? ![]()
Yeah thats what I mean too ![]()
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not always but most of the times a person's best friend is the same gender!
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^I guess depends on one's comfort zone yeah :)
mine aint too comfey ![]()
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It will only spoil the friendship. It isto be living in another Utopia if we believe that the relation is never going to be change and will remain as rosy and lovely as it used to be. People change according to the nature of relationship. Dont they?
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^Yes exactly …thats what I think…but is that what they think? alright silliness aside, so is it safe to presume the best pick of the lot would be instead a childhood friend, who’s not the best of friends, but just too safe of a friend when it comes to possibilities of holly matrimonial relations? ![]()
Aliyish Try Air Jordan by Nike next time ![]()
Re: Marrying your best friend?
Friendship itslef is a matter of time testing. Not always the people you come across can be friends. It may take ages, and yet one day you will cometo know that they were just as good as strangers for you.
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Hmmm that's a difficult question. I would say NO, Do Not marry your best friend. It could end up being a twisted sorta relationship after getting married. Being friends is one thing and living together is another. One would be used to the special treatment as friends and it may not always come from the spouse. Again this is difficult to answer as all individuals and relationships vary.
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^No actually I do agree with you on this one Sajal ji, that if u marry, that friendship is lost forever. It’d be clever to keep the friendship forever by being mainly friends hie na ![]()
Miraj: well mine are quite seasonal, but yet eternal, ofcourse apart from the one’s in family circle. NOt the kind to hold on forever since u know with the currents of life we always drift apart here and there. I guess the question I’m posed with is what is a best friend.
For me, its someone u don’t fear sharing nothing with and can share ur happy sad moments alike, and when u’re together, u rarely feel the need of another. Hmm… I guess I should ask Mirch to open up a thread to categorize the type’s for friends (or maybe he did already) :hmm:
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If your spouse is not your best friend then you are missing something in your marriage.
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^ Such a pet topic it always has to be, only next to those related marriages
but yay, go for that, maybe there will be some new perspectives on the surface this time. GS is so full of Philosopher Kings. ![]()
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Icono brought about a point to think over, yes. Its the spouses who should make an effort and turn their relation into friendship. It might work. Atleast this is what mostly one can witness. Changing of the friendhip into a marriage, im afraid, will be a complete disillusionment. But you never know with the expectional cases, since there are some, always. ![]()
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Friendship is all about bossiness . … it sucks :pcg: