I think if the couple loves each other…these struggles can become a way for them to become closer to each other. I know of several couples who have seen the toughest of times. And by tough, I mean not having money to buy food at times. Everything they have today is a result of their hard work, not his.
Im really not trying to be noble here but I have a problem with marrying a rich guy. I have an issue marrying a guy that already has it all and did it without me. I feel like I missed out on the best years of his life and dont deserve to spend his money. It would make me feel as if I as just another fixture in his life that he needed to have. No one really gets this about me but eh, whatever.
I would have absolutely no problem marrying a well-settled guy (note I don’t say rich, since that is relative and I don’t value wealth for wealth’s sake).
I think it’s a matter of where you are in your own life. I myself am old enough and settled in my own career that it would be weird to be with someone who lacks the same direction in his life as I have unless I marry a younger guy .
While I’m not expecting the house and snazzy car, I do expect him to have a home and a stable job and a means of supporting himself and his family - though as his partner, it’s would be our joint responsibility going forward.
Of course, life throws each of us some curves, he could lose his job, I could lose my job - but I’d like to know that he’s at least settled at the time that I marry him.
Abhi sunna hai ya baad mein sunaoon? You pick this time.
Thats exactly what I want. He should have a job of course. Lekin I dont mind if he doesnt have a house, a luxury car, a hefty bank balance, still paying on his student loans, etc.
Thats exactly what I want. He should have a job of course. Lekin I dont mind if he doesnt have a house, a luxury car, a hefty bank balance, still paying on his student loans, etc.
Agreed - I just don't want his parents supporting us, and if I need to take time off to have some kiddies, he'd better be able to support us.
Blahhhhhhh . . . women just want men to keep on working like a khoota and they can sit and enjoy . If I have a car , a house , a good job then why will I marry your boothi . I'll go find some hot blond .
Bottom line is that women are hardly team players , and more they cry about equality the more the don't want it for themselves . So yea you are better off being a sugar daddy than a khoota all your life .
Blahhhhhhh . . . women just want men to keep on working like a khoota and they can sit and enjoy . If I have a car , a house , a good job then *why will I marry your boothi . I'll go find some hot blond . *
Bottom line is that women are hardly team players , and more they cry about equality the more the don't want it for themselves . So yea you are better off being a sugar daddy than a khoota all your life .
Question is, why will some 'hot blonde' marry YOUR bootha?
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Abhi sunna hai ya baad mein sunaoon? You pick this time.
