Marrying someone you are not attracted to..

[ChunkyMonkey]

Re: Marrying someone you are not attracted to..

@sheyn

***Attraction is vital in the setting of an arranged marriage.

It is the initial attraction that allows the couple to overcome the early , bumpy days of adjusting to each others personalities and habits. I would think it is what holds the relationship together before trust or love has time to develop .

It helps the couple to stick it out through the rough patches…

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The Genius speaks

But then not everyone is as beautiful as you Sheyn, hence the lack of attraction with them initially can be a cause of concern for some.

@LostAngel

so someone u dont find attractive…physically and all the other ways too…would u marry?

In most cases attraction is not something that is built on the 1st sight seeing , it rather develops gradually. This girl I used to like was not all that attractive physically when I first saw her but gradually as I started to like her more for her heart/mind, I started to find her very attractive physically as well, enough that I didn’t even like the most gorgeous ones out there once compared to her.