Marrying someone you are not attracted to..

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so someone u dont find attractive…physically and all the other ways too…would u marry?

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why wud you wana jump into a pit full of fire - destruction .. if the notion before marriage is that one is unattractive etc in all possible ways .. then just think of the arguments, gallaaN baataN after ..

however, In arranged marriages .. funny and alien things happen .. like i found out few years ago ..that a big age difference is also a un attractive way .that .. a girl 25 married a baba around 65 .. i mean it was her choice .. apparently not for money as the baba is a simple baba not super duper rich or anything and they are still married ..

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LAngel ... y any1 will goona maarry to som1 lik thss hmmm

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nopes... u ought to have some kind of attraction to marry someone. Physical or mental... something needs to be there.

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no I would not marry because as u said not only looks but in all other ways too you don't like that person.

No body is perfect but there should be something about the person you should like whom you are going to marry.

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At least she shd hav green or blue eyes :@:

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no way

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It would be difficult for someone to say yes based on the question.

But these kind of marriages may occur

1- If one himself/herself is not so attractive.

2- Some old customs like watta satta.

3- Money, fame etc. involved. Old rich man (who is about to die) and woman is gold digger. A lazy ugly man who is looking for sugar mama. :hehe:

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attraction doesnt have to be about looks, its about the charm (of whatever it is that clicks for you)

attraction = magnetism

so, no i wouldnt.

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Yes i am sure marriages like this are not rare but unfortunately very common. why ? reason for gals is that there are not many decent proposals. Its very hard to get what u are looking for. The fear of getting over aged haunts you plus ppl around keep reminding it to you that Rishtay nahin miltay. Larka at least shareef tou hai, shakal mein kiya rakha hai. shadi ke baad sab theek lagtay hein. etc etc. So yes many gals marry boys they dont find attractive before marraige.

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It would be unfortunate if there is no attraction in the beginning, but even the most imperfect person becomes perfect **if **you fall in love with them

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I think physical attraction is very important for husband and wife.. it's not the only thing that one should look at but I think it definately makes a difference in their relationship.

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^Agree..

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I think some sort of attraction is important...be it physical or otherwise. There has to be some attraction there, it doesn't necessarily have to be based on looks though.

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Yep. Having difficulty in finding good men for any reasons may make women settle for good qualities other than physical attraction.

P.S. People do fall out of attraction with time or they do not find it very important factor when relationship develops more bonding.

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That could make you a GOLD DIGGER! :)

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why would I? if he has nothing besides the fact that he's a male

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there has to be some attraction, whether its physical or other.. otherwise no

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Nope, there has to be some element of attraction.

P.S. My marriage was arranged.

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There has to be some attraction. I can't imagine marrying someone I don't find attractive at all. It's like jumping from a tall buulding knowing you're going to die.