Marrying into an Indian Muslim Family

[annie718]

Re: Marrying into an Indian Muslim Family

@mirage

No, the dehli wale thing doesnt even make any sense. The other issues like mom’s asserting and shallow behaviour and the boy’s undue attachment with his sister (if it seems extra ordinary to you) is something that would worry me. So, like in any such consequences one should prudently do, may be you would like to take some more time and read the boy and his family more, since in your own words, its your future your talking about.
do not in anyway fall prey to such silly and negative thoughts like dehli wala or faisal adab wala. good and bad people exist anywhere. its really unethical to tag and judge people this way.
btw, from what I have heard of dehli wale is that thy are more refined and have more mastery over manners and language and ettiquets.

That’s true. I think taking more time and getting to know him is a good idea. Although we’re really getting pushed to make a decision from his side. His mom said she would like to get our baat pakki by June. So I guess I have 5 more months to decide.