I’m not the groom to be in disguise for sure, unless she’s going to be wife#2 and I don’t know about it yet. I’m not criticizing anyone. I’m just saying that a lot of what she described as fun is simply not appealing to me and I’m sure that I’d seem boring to someone like her probably moreso than the family she’s marrying into, inshAllah. I like the family/friend get togethers every now and then. However we certainly don’t need any dancing or hangama at weddings. The best weddings I’ve been to didn’t have any of that.
I most certainly am a man. Great minds think alike.