Marrying at a young age!

[angel21]

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hmmm i got married at 18 now im 19 with a three mnth old daughter

[Afro-Sheen]

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A friend got married I think at 18 or 19 years of age. She now Mashallah has 5 kids and is very happy with her family. Actually her & her hubby have a bit of age difference, BUT it was a love marriage. She was Paki muslim from a background of Christian pakistanis. Now over th eyears she has changed so much, and gotten fairly religous. But she always wanted a big family so I guess that made it easy for her.

[Shak]

all of the gurls got married at the age of 18 or 19

A bit shocking in modern times, engagement maybe but marriage at 18?

[blackforest_360]

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hm from I see, many girls of today's times are very naive and innocent. They do not not much about real life, shaadi for them means "omg my hubby to be has to be rich" and "my lengha has to match the chandeliers" which is totally fine. But some girls do not even know the responsibilities and value of marriage before stepping into it. A girl at 18-19 can be mature, but most are very childish and immature in thought, best to let them grow out of girlhood first.

[Ladlee21]

@Shak09

A bit shocking in modern times, engagement maybe but marriage at 18?

yea and 1 of them got married at the age of 16..

[Dubaiwali]

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When you get married at 18 you get divorced one year later:chai: So young marriages are a big :nono:

[devilish_angel]

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i got married at 19 yrs n lucky to have such a nice hubby........i m doing my studies after marriage n v vl plan our family after completion of my studies.............it all depends on u n ur partner.........

[ChiLLyMiLLy]

@Dubaiwali

When you get married at 18 you get divorced one year later:chai: So young marriages are a big :nono:

That’s not true.

[Dubaiwali]

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There was a reason why I said that.

[ChiLLyMiLLy]

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It all depends on kismat, you can't say that it won't work out for everyone.

[Malika12]

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There is nothing wrong with getting married young...as long as your mentally prepared for that kind of committment!

[Ladlee21]

@Dubaiwali

When you get married at 18 you get divorced one year later:chai: So young marriages are a big :nono:

hey thats not true…all of my czns are happy mashAllah even after 10 years of marriage…its about kismat..age has nothing to do with it:)

[Dubaiwali]

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THERE WAS A REASON I SAID THAT. NEVER MIND.

[Ladlee21]

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lol, u dont have to shout? sigh..anyways i didnt read that msg of urs..peace

[Dubaiwali]

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I am just annoyed. People it is my personal opinion. I used that smileys to make it look sarcastic*i guess i failed eh?*... My opinion. It was not a serious advice. Anyhow..

[Shak]

@Ladlee21

yea and 1 of them got married at the age of 16..

Too young, far too young…Imo…

[Ladlee21]

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^ i know..

[Maham]

@Decent_6Chora

If SHE is happy, YOU dont need to feel depressed. All that matters where rubber meet the road is if she is happy or not

Lol i am not depressed or anything, i was only concerned cuz she ofcourse didn’t look very sorted out. Hence my query here.

@Dubaiwali

When you get married at 18 you get divorced one year later:chai: So young marriages are a big :nono:

ok that’s your take on it but i think its quite immature no offence but i think if that was the case we wouldnt have more divorces in west compared to our countries.

[Dubaiwali]

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God help me. I wanna die.

[Maham]

@ChiLLyMiLLy

The reason why Allah recommended us to marry early is because at that age your hormones get going on. To prevent us from choosing the haraam way of dealing with our emotions and to prevent things such as unwanted pregnancies etc. marriage is a halaal channel. Responsibility, once again I stick with what I said earlier. It also has a lot to do with how you are raised. Some of our grandmothers were married at a very early age and they could handle everything in the house with 12 kids. Whereas now, girls have other priorities such as education and they choose to face the music when the time gets there. My two cents.

True.

@BarbieCue

Depends on the person, as chilly said. I’ve seen many girls so desperate to get married at 18 yrs of age. In fact, whenever I go to Pakistan, the favourite topic among the girlies is their shaadi!

I think it has something to do with the fact that ever since they r babies, they r told how they r gonna get married one day and move to their home and all that. So its just conditioned in their mind hence its something they perhaps r always looking forward to?!.

@queeniky

Every1 has there own opinions…i got married at 20 (my hubby cudnt wait to marry me) had my 1st child at 21 i wud never have had it any other way..im soo happy i got married young..its now cumin on to 13 years ive been married and 4 kids in total my eldest child is nearly 12 years old shes even taller than me ppl dont believe me when i tell them she is my daughter i luv being a young mom..i get to still do all the girly things i did with my friends with my daughter now…

honestly, if u ask me that’s the only good i see of marrying young

@Faris_Udeen

18 isn’t that early really i would have thought it the best time for shadee…

But then i’m not exactly norman am i

lol, rite. what age wud be young for u?!

@Stardust09

gosh, iam getting married at the age of 25 and I think that’s way too young :S

18!! my goodness… don’t think I was mature at all at that age.

Hahaha, r u the youngest in yr family? cuz i feel the same that one shud marry around 25.