^sme here monk
however on serious note:
i would not mind a older women if she is a genuinly better girl than her youngers, which is difficult to find nowdays.
However the biological clock thing is also something to consider, and many people tell me women age quicker and that girl would in no time end up looking like my mum.
That's what I was actually refering to amir_pindi! Since if your in ur early twenties and she is in her late twenties.. the older you delay to have children. The more chances of genetic defects occuring in your children - Allah reham karay! Maybe thats why people of similiar/younger age should marry?
Apparently women do age faster as they enter their thirties and your five/seven years behind, would people say is that your wife or your mother (not saying people opinions count, it's what you think about your wife.. but you would think about it though wouldnt u?!.. OMG I married a bhudi kinda thing!)..?! Ive seen a guy marry his chachi!!!! I mean.. how can people even do that! big ewww! But I dont know..
Im not saying I put looks first, its just it is going to be a practical factor in the future. You want to be with her for life innit not just for a couple of years until everything starts to develop lines... lol
Obviously alot of factors count when marrying someone, but if you marry an older woman.. you are more likely to die early according to a news article I came across! How did they figure that one out? If anyone wants to read the article I'll post it.. pretty good laugh.