I am. I just love pointing fingers, personally I am exempt from any rules, including my own :k:
Re: Marrying an 18 year old
Depends so much on the person, but it is a fact that a 18 year old doesnt know much but does THINK that she knows a lot, hehe.
that is not the only problem. You barely know who you are at 25, let alone 18. Especially today - you havn't finished your education, not seen anything
What is the rush with finding a "mate". Precreating early? Good for you. It just means your body will fail quicker.
as a disclaimer. I am talking from a purely objective rational point of view. If you were wed age 16, this isnt a value judgement (necessarily)
1- There are people who are above 30 and still don't know who they are, what they want and wander around for a perfect match. Right?
2- Yes finishing education is important.
If the man can support the family and girl can still go for 'useful' education then this scenario still is better than both waiting for a high advanced degree (a piece of paper with no good job), losing precious time to enjoy married life and then when getting old with wrinkles and fixed mature thinking, trying to join gym to keep in shape with joint pains, and then getting married and trying to enjoy children.
Many stop after one child don't they? since its just too much for them to deal with at later life.
I am not strongly supporting 18 year old girl to be married but there are lots of positive which older couples do not get to enjoy.
for everything else, there’s cialis :k:
Re: Marrying an 18 year old
imo, the only factor worth worrying about, if one marries at 18, is education. It should never be put on the back burner, even if one marries young and has no plans for taking up a career. education is not just a degree which is utilised for earning a living, its a process of individual growth and grooming, it instills descipline and coping skills which come very handy especially for women who end up taking the role of a multi-tasker as a wife/mother/homemaker.
i know some people may disagree...but uhm girls it is fun being single...you should enjoy it till like you're 24-25 and then get married. Marriage brings so many responsibilities..errr who wants to grow up so fastt!! you'll have your whole life to deal with marriage/family like responsibilities. Seriouslyyy just enjoy being alone and not have responsibilities..