:phi, all are true, just have fun............who ever you marry.
Age doesn’t matter, maturity does. If he is younger but mature enough to be compatible then who cares about the age. My mom says to me all the time, “larkay ko atleast 5 sal bara hona chaye.” 
Anyone understood this logic, because I still haven’t!
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why does age matter in marrying a person????????
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well well..well..thats all i can say..!
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too much age difference for both women and men, is not good idea at all.
marrying on - 3 years older or younger depends on the mental compatilibility.
As far as looks are concerned, He's 27, im 31 we dont look our ages. I dont look 31, he doesnt look older than me.
As for maturity, relationships are more bout completing the person you are with. He brings his experiences and wisdom and I bring mine and together we make a whole.
I can be an immature person when it comes to a certain things whereas he'll be a lot more mature bout it and then vice versa.
If you find someone then numbers dont matter and what negativity people direct towards you only stems from jealousy.
Couldn't agree more.
You will see people with all kinds of age differences but at the end of the day, it's your level of maturity that matters. Some people get mature earlier than some.
USUSALLY, meaning generally..im not talking aobut exceptions...but most of the time marrying a guy who is couple of years or more younger than you is not a good idea. bcs usually young guyz r immature, do lots of mauquable-baazi, are easily influenced, dont understand relationships well. like for example a young guy will take his mother nad sister's side omre and will even fight 2 defend them if htere is a conflict between his wife and his mom nd sis. but if hte guy is older he is generally more mature, he wont be blindly and esily influenced by the woman in his family. he will understand that i have 2 calm things down. my wife is ht eone who is new to his house, if i fight with her for my family i am wrecking my future. its not about whos right but about keeping hte epace--only a mature man will undesrtand htis OR a really mature young guy(which r not many).
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soni27 you are too funny....
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they say that females mature quicker than males..so keeping that mind i guess it would be better to marry someone a little older than you? but if the guys mental level is the same as the girls then there isn't and shouldn't be a problem. i've always been attracted to older men but i ended up falling for someone a yr younger than me. i never think of him as being younger than me though..maybe it's because we're at the same level, academically..hmm
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opps!!! double post
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In our society,it is even unacceptable if the guy is just a year older than the girl,then how would they allow you to marry a guy who is younger than you?
.Personally,I wouldn’t like marrying a guy younger than me.I wish to marry someone who should be around just 1-2 years older than me.
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i won't.i always fell for older ones :) my hubby is 8 yrs older than me but i never feel that difference only that hes more conservative in his outlook n finds hard to b changed but that can happen with a younger stubborn mind too.
I married a much older man also and yet there are times when I feel like I've married a teenager
It all depends on your preference and you're willingness to make the relationship work - if you love the person for who they are, for what their life has moulded them into you won't care about society's norms or breaking their barriers
You just go for it - ignore what everyone else says and live in your own happy world
and if by incidence you are happier than the couples that are close in age you will notice people resent you even more
but never forget, the wound that doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, wear your battle scars with pride and move on with your life
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one of our relatives is married to same age guy n she always regrets it.
Another married to a younger guy(2 yrs younger) n she treats him like a kid.Shes a very bossy lady but the guy is himself a physco
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^ That's why he married older woman. He didn't understand that she is a cougar. lol
I don't mind marrying a guy whose a few years elder then me and i dont mind marrying a guy who is a few years younger then me..whats the big deal i don't understand..its only the guys personality, behavior, character etc that matters - Age didn't matter to the Holy Prophet then why and who are we do disagree with such issues.
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I think it makes sense to marry a younger guy. Women live longer then men.
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Well i wouldnt mind marrying a girl older than but only 2 yrs gap (max) and if shes older than that i than will seriously reconsider the decision. I wouldnt want to look like her beta lol…
Actually why would i fall in love with a girl who is literally older than me hmmmm ?
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there were two youngers guys who had a crush on me.one knew i was older n didn't care.other thought he was older n i didn't say my age but i showed them both back door.
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Highly doubt I can get along with a younger guy. But, love is blind - or so I hear anyway. So marry who you feel good with, younger or older, who cares!?