Fair point. If he is taking part in the very activities that he doesn't want HER to take part in...that's pretty hypocritical and a big fat warning sign for any girl who may consider marrying him.
But people do change. Perhaps he has, and in that case, he deserves a second chance no?
yeh ofcourse he deserves a second chance, but considering he is divorced now and I am sure this must have brought some if not many changes in his views of marriage and relationships, would he consider a desi girl who is divorced?