Virgins make mistakes. We should be more forgiving rather than going all out on the guy. The odds of things working out these days are pretty low.
The guy should learn his lesson, move on and try to pursue the right partner. When people get involved to help or parents try to find the best match, things normally get gossipy.
My advice to singles on GS...Nobody knows you better than you do...find your own spouse and own your mistakes or rewards.