Re: Marrying a well-settled but divorced guy
Let me add my 2 cents.
The story behind a divorce should be taken with pinch of salt.
I was intimately involved in an unsuccessful rescue for a very close relatives marriage, although we agree the girl a lot of issues. But I am sure that the guy is not clean as want us to believe either (may be he knows how to cover himself well).
There are too many skeletons in closet for both parties ,and regardless whatever explanation one need to be very careful.
Even if he is so "clean" he like us believe, but it is fact immature, insensitive unable to handle the family in proper way.
I told my sister that i would never be able to present myself asking someone else's hand for him, as he failed once there is no guarantee it would never happen again.
The best advice is stay away, at least you would not be blamed if story repeat itself.