Re: Marrying a well-settled but divorced guy
Actually, he didn't divorce her... she asked for one since she got fed up with the fights and the restrictions he was putting on her, like stay home with me, spend time with me, lets do social activities together rather than her going out with friends every night.
I'm not making excuses for the guy, its just that he's a nice guy..... typical desi though. And thats what most desi men expect, you know. They are okay with fun-loving girls or whatever but after marriage they expect you to settle down, like he stopped partying and clubbing and all, he expected her to do the family thing too, you know socialize with families and no more partying, clubbing, etc.
Anyways, Thank you Mistral... i think your advice is really good. I'll sit down with him and ask him the details as I wouldn't wanna start approaching people without knowing the full story. And then I'll approach people accordingly. Thanks :)