Re: Marrying a Pakistani man …
when you get married, you marry the whole family, not the just the husband, good or bad, this is how it is in our culture, so yes the problem is about all of them, and the source of the problem is his family, not just himself.
unfortunately, there are so many people like his mother, and she’ll always be in the picture, so it would be extremely naive to think anything like “if he comes to canada things will change” no, because you can’t keep her away from her son
don’t lose your pride and self respect girl, you become very vulnerable when you’re in love, keep yourself busy, find some new activities or hobbies, don’t call them and see how they react, even though it could take weeks. if you try to talk to them they’re gonna feel like they have some sort of power over you and they gonna take advantage of that; whatever their plan is. if it helps, erase their numbers from your phone it will keep you from calling them.
i hope you find someone who respects you and that he can marry his mamou’s daughter and maybe all of them will sleep in the same bed (him, his mum, his divorced sister and his wife) and eat in the same thali.