Marrying a Pakistani man ...

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Re: Marrying a Pakistani man …

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You know I am in a similar situation but not at such an extreme. From what I know, men consider their family sacred, and if you want to be part of his love and affection you need to be as devoted to his “sacred” family, as he is. He will love a million times more, trust me. I am in the process of realization myself. No matter how wrong they are, how right you are…it just does not matter. It’s his family and it’s sacred. DON’T MESS! That’s pretty much the idea here, now when we constantly bring up the family as the evil monster, you keep triggering the same behaviour out of him.

Now please listen up, if you really want to save this. Stop the complaining, nagging and bickering about his family. Instead start talking about ALL if ANY positives that happened. Tell him wow your mom is amazing, she is so sweet. You need to realize if you want to be part of his love, you have to cherish his family ten folds more than he does.

That’s how it goes. O yes and make plenty of dua’s and istikhara.

You can message me if you like.

very true…IF she wants to stay in this marriage this would be the way to go