Marrying a Pakistani man ...

[fat_spartan]

Re: Marrying a Pakistani man …

@Deeba1234

**It’s only personal preference if the couple themselves choose to stay apart till rukhsati, not when parents (or anyone else) force them to, **that’s more like oppression..

If couples want to live together/not together it should be** their** choice. This so-called tradition is slightly different from a lot of others in that it’s blatantly trying to turn something halal into haram.. (unlike for ex an engagement ring which in itself isn’t generally considered haram by a lot of scholars, those things are more about ‘personal preference’ than forcing ur son and dil to live apart after nikah)..

Well said. InshAllah I will encourage my next generation to meet with their spouses after nikah and before ruksati. We need the religious people to start doing that openly to get rid of the misconception.