Re: Marrying a Pakistani man …
Jahaiz/Dowry is something I am severely against and I would never even consider a family that seemed greedy. Furnishing a MAN’s home is like telling the girl she didnt marry a man…she married a liability.
Clothes and jewelry parents give their daughters for THEM to use is not rishwat…those are gifts given out of love.
I dont think its bad to give gifts of some sort to the inlaws on their daughter’s wedding. It is after all a joyous occasion BUT they dont need to be gold sets or anything.
Its stupid to have to bribe a man’s family to be good to a woman…why bother keeping a man like that around? Get rid of him because he will turn into - like I said before - a liability in the future.
Jab tak saas ka pait bhara rahega…larki khush rahegi. The minute the guy’s family needs something they will start treating the girl like dirt as a way of begging for money. THAT is ridiculous and should NOT be tolerated at any cost. People like that are parasites in our society and end up destroying the family at some point regardless of how much you give them.
It will never stop at one thing…zindagi bhar ki mushkil kyun palay insaan? Jab dekho, haat phay laye kharay hongay ke ab humko ye chahiye varna hum apki beti ka gala daba dengay. Who needs that kind of museebat on their hands?
I think this girl needs to let her husband go so he can take care of his sisters and mother. He cannot be married at this point in time. To top it all off, she doesnt realize that HE needs HER…she doesnt need him.